Xeph
Posted : 8/24/2006 12:05:42 PM
I'm going to mirror what Glenda said.
The German Shepherd Dog is a family dog, but
they pick their people! Something that many are not prepared for when they get a GSD....is that the GSD may not bond to THEM, and it really can be heartbreaking!
It's happened on more than one occassion where (for example) a husband bought his wife the Shepherd she always dreamed of. It was supposed to be "her dog".....the Shepherd bonded more to the husband than the wife, and it's a crushing blow.
Shepherds bond most closely to the person they feel "needs" them the most. You may not think that you need the Shepherd, but they know better. Sometimes they become this HUGE support system that another family member of friend just can't offer, and they knew that you needed them. Sometimes they just feel that other members of the family are strong enough on their own.
You could do all the training, socializing, etc....the dog may still very well choose to be the boyfriend's dog.
This doesn't mean they don't love the rest of the family. Strauss adores his family, especially my little brother. But he makes it clear that he is MY dog. He's always by my side, he follows me everywhere, he lays as close to me as he can.
When somebody else tells Strauss to sitz, platz, or what have you, he does it....but he's slow about it. And he gives people this look of "I'll do it, but I'm taking my sweet darned time, cause you're not mom!" The same goes for Ranger. Ranger does not live with me, he lives with a man just 1/2 a mile away.
Ranger loves me, I have no qualms about that, but he makes it clear to me that he is
Brian's dog! I can deal with that! NO problem with it at all! BUT, if you cannot deal with the dog being velcro to ONE person, and showing this undying love for this ONE person, and sometimes giving YOU this look of "Yeah, whatever" a GSD isn't for you, because they aren't shy about showing who their "favorite" is