calliecritturs
Posted : 8/15/2006 6:07:37 PM
Part of all the BEST of Muffin the Intrepid was his deafness. (special needs -- let's see -- lifelong demodex dog, allergy dog in a BIG way, both ears removed from long term infections before we got him, cancer survivor of two surgeries and chemo -- special needs? ymmmmmmm maybe *grin*).
About a week after his second ear had been removed I stood in front of all 3 crates and signed "Dad & I are going out to dinner -- see ya later, bye!"
sign = dad + self +food+ seeya sign.
All of a sudden the Intrepid one's eyes got HUGE when I SAID the word 'supper' and signed 'food'.
CONNECTION MADE -- I almost heard his lips moved as he thot "DANG ... all these times they're "going out to supper" and THEY'RE AFTER FOOD???? Is there a freakin white box in my future???? HUH???????????????????????????????????"
It was hysterical -- he made so many 'connections' like that -- and at times he actually pitied the others we thot because HIS understanding was deeper -- communication with him became a total study. He'd give you this look like "Yeah, but *I* know where you're really goin!!"
Oh wait -- maybe "special needs" is the part where when he didn't want to DO what you were signing to TELL him to do he'd look at the ceiling???? AVOID EYE CONTACT?? Oh yeah. (smart a$$ dog!)
Pet therapy -- this dog would ZOOM to the child who was deaf and sit n front of them transfixed while they "talked" -- the child fascinated that the dog understood sign, and the dog fascinated that this kid knew his 'special signs' that he thot only existed with people who got Mom's "List of Signs Muffin Knows".
I have a totally different definition of "special needs" than most people. Deaf dogs often do better with other dogs -- that's not a hard and fast rule, but it tends to be the case. Sometimes they follow -- sometimes they lead (Muffin was THE undisputed "guard dog" of Chez Kennedy -- because he could SMELL something coming way before any of the others could sense it with ALL their senses just because his nose was THAT astute).
MMT's sentence that dals themselves aren't for everyone is VERY true. Some folks can't handle imperfection or any difference in how they do things or how consistent they may do things. For me the term "special needs" isn't a bad one -- it's the part of PetFinder I go to first. So I'm likely not a good one to ask, cos I'm gonna tell you that's what would make that dog valuable TO ME.
I do teach ALL my dogs sign. From the second they walk in the house. Why? Because we all get old. We all lose our sight and hearing and still giving a dog the 'shhhh' gesture from 500 feet away and having thems top barking is a PLUS in my book.