glenmar
Posted : 4/20/2007 8:52:01 PM
Oh gracious! Sorry I missed this.
My youngest son was a walking, talking accident waiting to happen. That boy even had stitches in his TONGUE! I got to where I could tell at a glance how many stitches a wound would need. Blood, no problem, but when he broke his arm and the wrist looked for all the world like a bent elbow, THAT freaked me out.
The only time HE got freaked was when he cut an artery in his hand. We went to Urgent Care, they sutured and sent us on our way. We got out to the van and I looked over, he's holding his hand up as told and he had blood dripping off his elbow. We go back in and they put a bigger bandaid on it and sent us on our way again. I have to point out that when I TOLD the doc that it was too much blood for a normal cut he patted me on the knee and actually had the nerve to say "there there, it ALWAYS looks like too much blood to a mother".....this was probably the 30th or so visit for sutures so I wasn't a novice......
After we'd gotten home the two boys were sitting at the picnic table playing a board game. I had a latex glove on DS injured hand to keep it clean...this boy attracted dirt like no tomorrow.....I walked into the kitchen for more drinks for us and while I was in there my oldest son started calling for me that his brother was bleeding again. I went out immediately and saw my youngest standing with his hand over the trash can...the glove was so filled with blood that it had pulled right off. I could not stop the bleeding (not knowing at the time it was an artery) so I took my belt off for a tourniquet and wrote the time on his forehead in magic marker and had my oldest son...all of 10... call 911 for me....didn't have a cordless phone in those days.....to get him to the ER I had to go over a drawbridge and I was afraid to DRIVE him and be stuck on that bridge should the bleeding get worse. I figured that at least in an ambulance I had paramedics who could HELP in that event. When they tried to take a BP on him they couldn't get a reading and the poor little guy looked at the man and said "that's cuz I lost all my blood in the trash"!
In that case I followed the "rules" of not using the ER for a non life threatening emergency and because of the complacency and incompetence of that Urgent Care doc it became a very life threatening situation. I should have sued and put that place out of business. My son could have bled to death.....and even the paramedics were glad that I'd put that tournaquet on,(usually a no-no) had him laying down and was holding his arm up over his heart.
Aside from the broken bone, I'm typically calm during the emergency and freak AFTER it's all over. But, we all react differently, and you did the RIGHT thing for your situation.