Chuffy
Posted : 4/6/2007 2:32:34 AM
I went to the midwife this week and she was a bit concerned that the baby may have turned and that he was breech..... also that he wasn't big enough looking at my dates. So I had to have a scan just to check everything was fine, which it did turn out to be. Head down and a healthy weight. So phew.
My woes this week include a Flapping DH (he was more worried than me about having to have the scan) I wonder what use he will be in the delivery room!
Baby not engaged yet... Space is really at a premium in there under my ribs and it is getting quite uncomfortable... I almost long for him to move down into my pelvis except that that will mean Birth is not far away..... I'm not actually scared about the Birth part 99% of the time I alternate between resignation (they all have to come out one way or another) and morbid curiosity.... you hear so many stories; what's it really LIKE??? I just don't want him to be born yet because we are sooooo Not Ready!!!!
Another "woe" is every woman I know who has had babies relishing in telling me the horror story of her own childbirth.... Why?? When you know I have only 2 weeks to go, are you TRYING to scare me? Is this some sort of vindictive revenge - it was so horrible for you and there is no one you can really repay for that so you'll do your best to scrae that cr@p out of me instead? What is with all that?
And another "woe" is Stretch Marks. I have more now and they are getting worse... I swera they are getting worse DAILY. Most still quite faint though thank god... hopefully won't take them long to fade.
And another "woe" is that this week the kids are all off for the Easter holidays which means the swimming pool I go to is ram packed with annoying and obnoxious children..... Firstly, that does NOT make me relish motherhood and secondly they get in the darn way when I am trying to do some serious swimming.
And as well as "woes", there's good stuff too.....
- About 20 people have complimented me on how "well" I look, apparently I am "blooming" and I have a lovely shape, can;t tell I am pregnant from the back etc..... which I can almost believe because I am STILL fitting into my old jeans (yay!)
- I've NEARLY finished packing my hospital bag
- My midwife told me I have excellent tummy muscles (hooray! hopefully help with labour)
- And when I had the scan I saw my baby really clearly.... he is, at one and the same time, the ugliest and most beautiful thing I've ever seen. And he was chewing his fist. So nice to know he is keeping busy in there....