tina robinson
Posted : 1/18/2007 5:44:31 AM
Not going to be a popular responce, but here goes.
Personally if it is your body and you want to, and have the money then it is up to you, but if the drugs or surgery do end up causing more problems for the children they are ment to grow, the plug should be pulled. If the surgeries can be done, and the drugs do not cause more birth defects, health problems etc, then who am I to tell someone else they cant do it? I do not think I hav ethe right to tell someone they cant have an abortion, or put their child up for adoption, or do anything possible to save a child no matter of the childs quality of life, it is their lives and choices. But like I said if their choices are directly and negativly effecting children then it should not be allowed. Some people do not want to adopt, call it selfish, but that is their choice. After watching my cousin struggle for 5 years to try and adopt, I can really understand why, this is an international adoption, and they choose a country and war breaks out, after having a child assigned to them. Imagin having a childs picture, being told this one is yours his name is___________, here he is at 3 days, and 3 months, and now at 6 months. You have to wait until you can get all the paperwork, and passports done, usually about a year, so then after doing all of this and just a month or so away from leaving to pick up the child you have watched grow up in pictires sending him stuff, and your pics so he learns that you are his new parents, being told well you can try and get him, but becasue of the war it is not recomended. Or his orphanage is in a highly bombed area. It is not all easy to adopt, and saddly the ones that need it the most are often the hardest countries to get them out of. I am happy to say that they have another little boy assigned to them from Etheopia that they hope to pick up around march, he will be almost 2 by then.