wildboar
Posted : 8/29/2006 3:12:17 PM
I'm currently not working...and here's my life story, lol.
I was working for Child Protective Services. It was a really difficult job with some really horrible side effects (i.e. insomnia, worry, guilt, etc.) It's hard to see a lot of the things that I saw in my time there and not be effected by it. I got into a situation where a supervisor wanted me to remove a child from it's mother and I could not establish that this child was in danger. This supervisor has had a history of manipulating information regarding other staff members so that their jobs were on the line. When she realized that I had some integrity and was not going to remove this child without seeing it first, she lied to my supervisor (who happens to be a good friend of hers) about my behavior in the case. At this point I decided that the office I was working in was corrupt and decided to leave. When I left I had almost 400 hours of overtime/leave time. So, I'm enjoying a well earned vacation.
Before working for CPS, I worked in an emergency shelter for abused and neglected children. It was an amazing job that I loved. Had it paid more, I would have stayed there. It's amazing the difference you can make in a child's life that the rest of the world labels a misfit or a delinquent. It was as simple as sitting down with them and explaining their homework to them or taking the time to listen to what is really bothering them. FYI: to all you teachers and those who deal with children, if a child has bad behavior, you can believe that there is some form of neglect or abuse behind it unless there is a diagnosed medical reason. Growing up is hard, and it is made worse by people who won't help you out with it.
Anyways, I have had to re-evaluate my life and put my priorities in order. I have decided to relocate to another state to be with my fiance, the one person in this world who can make me smile no matter what. Our two year relationship almost ended when I was working for CPS as I put the job before him and before myself. I am looking for work again with CPS in his state or in some other child related area such as juvenile probation. I have always had a thing for the underdog.
I have a bachelor's degree in Sociology with a minor in Spanish. I also have completed half of the courses for my master's in Gerontology. I was inspired to choose this degree by my elders who were diagnosed with alzheimer's, arthritis, and everything else. I'd like to someday work in continuing care environment(i.e. progressive care facilities including independent, assisted, and nursing, also in specialized nursing). I would also maybe like to help design products with the aging population in mind. I do volunteer work with victims of violent crime as well. Many people tell me that I should write a book about my experiences. Maybe I will do this as well, who knows?