Riding Lessons (mrstjohnson) - Updated with Pics ;-)

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    She has been taking swim lessons since she was about 2.  They have a good program here and they all know her.  Although she likes to play in the water, she has a mild interest in swimming.  Basically if we don't do the horseback riding that's what she will get into.

    I talked with DH tonight and we both agreed that at this time, if there isn't a SN program, we might wait until next year.  I emailed Ann and she knows a couple of people; however, they are probably about an hour away, so we'll see.

    I did check prices and it was about $150 for 6 weeks of 1 hour classes.  That's somewhat in line with any dance class I would put her in, and it's definitely doable on our end.

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    In relation to knee pressure, English would be harder on knees than Western. Posting at the trot is something only done in English riding, also jumping. So you might consider at least starting off at a Western riding stable.  She can always switch later (I did) if her interests develop in the sport and she wants to try jumping.

    I'm not sure what average prices are these days for lessons, but most stables specializing in beginners/children should offer group, semi-private, and private options.

    I'm not sure if she needs a SN instructor or not...most instructors are used to all kinds of kids. I would want to speak with them on the phone/in person about her specific needs, and probably also a visit to the stable before signing up. You want to make sure everything looks on the up and up, of course (cleanliness, condition of the horses).   A good trainer should welcome that.

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    The one stable I am looking at has a Introduction to Horses class.  It gives the kids a chance to see if they even like the horse thing, etc.  We might do that, even if we don't take the class, as something fun and exciting.  It's two hours and it will definitely give me a feel for whether or not its something she would be interested in.

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     PLEASE take a camera!  Sounds like fun!

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    Just saw this! Would be happy to give my $0.02 - I took lessons about once a week(ish) from age 8-16ish, and spent a number of summers riding every day.
    mrstjohnson

     Questions:

    1.  What should I look for in a riding stable

    2.  What can I expect to pay?

    3.  How often should her classes be - this might be dependent on #2 - if its really expensive I will have to evaluate how often she can ride, etc.

    Thanks!!!

    Definitely PM Max's Mom - she was a better rider than I've ever been, and she knows the area :) But based on what I do know...

    1) If you can find an experienced horse person, see if you can have them help you screen stables. It is REALLY really important to have a good stable/instructor. If you're looking yourself, you want to find an instructor that's a little uptight and OCD about safety and barn management, but someone that also has a good attitude. In my experience, most riding instructors fall into one of the following two camps - super laid back, not terribly conscientious about safety, kind of fly-by-the-seat-of-your-pants, or super uptight, drill sergeant-like, lots of yelling and sometimes swearing for "motivation." Typically, the latter tend to turn you into better riders, but can also kind of spoil the fun out of it.

    2) This is WIDELY variable, especially depending on geography. As a very very rough estimate, I'd estimate around $40 for a half hour of private instruction. You will have to decide if you want group or private lessons - based on your hopes for Riley, I'd guess private would be the best bet. (I tend to always favor private lessons.)

    3) Once a week is typically where people start, to see if they like it. It all depends on your budget and schedule. The more, the better. I was never able to get very competitive because I was often unable to ride more than once a week - that really held me back after I'd been riding a while. However, for the first year, once a week would probably be sufficient. If you can do more often and she's having fun, GREAT!

    Feel free to email me if you have any more questions - I don't have that much time to be on these forums these days but would be more than happy to chat via email or something :)

    As for the knee issue, I honestly have no idea. You can talk to her doctor, but unless her doctor is an equestrian, he/she probably wouldn't have a full idea of what riding lessons would entail. I'd definitely say give it a try - Western indeed might be easier on the knees? Or dressage? - and see how she feels. Honestly, she probably wouldn't be doing anything REALLY intensive for at least a few months, so the early stages will mostly be to see if she likes the horses, likes the trainer, is able to focus, that sort of thing.

    I think horseback riding is one of the best activities possible for helping kids learn responsibility and self-confidence - at least, it was really great for me :) I hope you find a great place to try, and I hope you both have fun! Would love to see pics!

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    Well, we went today to the stables for a short intro to the horse.  There was another mom their with her 3 spcial needs kids!!!  Just when you think you are overwhelmed, you then feel suddenly very lucky!  Anyway, she LOVED it.  She wan't even the least bit nervous, scared, etc.  The instructor is very nice and very well versed on Special Needs kids.  She will be taking a 30 minute private lesson once a week.  They are a non profit and as a result, their prices are very reasonable ($25 a session).  The one thing I really liked is you pay per week.  The assumption is there is class every week unless I need to cancel.

    Here are some pics from today...

     

    I also spoke with her doc and they said GO FOR IT!

    Thanks for all the advice everyone!

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     It warms my heart knowing Riley is taking to it so well...Big Smile

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    Picture #3 should go in a frame with a big ribbon on it that says 'my FIRST horseback ride!!'

    Lisa -- that is beyond precious.  And I think for **you** meeting that other Mom with 3 special needs kids?  Wow -- that really does kinda put it in perspective doesn't it??

    How did Riley feel AFTER?  What did she say?  This is great!!  I'm proud of her FOR you!! LOL

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    Tell her it's obvious she's a great rider - and she looks so beautiful on the horse.
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     What FUN!! Riley, you are one lucky little lady!

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    Oh man, I am so happy for her and for you. What a wonderful experience. I can't wait to hear more and see more pictures. Yay!!!!

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    Great update & pics! Go Riley!
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    What a great day!  I am so glad it went well.

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    calliecritturs

    Picture #3 should go in a frame with a big ribbon on it that says 'my FIRST horseback ride!!'

     

     

    He hee I was also thinking this!  Love all the photos, what a fun time for Riley!  So glad you found a place like this, your description makes it sound like the perfect place for you two.

     

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    Yea for you and yea for Riley!!!  I love the pics.  Riley you look like you have been riding all your life Wink