nigguysmom
Posted : 3/14/2006 1:26:43 PM
I just thought that I would add my [sm=2cents.gif] to this one. Not sure who said it, but I would not entirely rely on the fact that because the fence does or does not face your yard with the "pretty or ugly" side it's shared and that the neighbor will help fix it. Unless you have a survey or some sort of documentation, it is better to error on the side of caution. You take the stand that the safety of your dogs is your first and foremost priority. That means making sure that they can't get out, even if they are friendly and wouldn't jump on the fence. Doesn't really matter, protect your babies! Even though the 3 yr old kid is the neighbor's responsibility, many parents (not all so please don't get made at me for that statement) will try to put the responsibility on you to protect her. Make sure she can't get into your yard, make sure that she can't stick things through the fence, etc. If you

rotect your dogs, then in turn you are protecting the kid next door. Once you have the fence fixed and secured, YOU call the police department/animal control and have them come over, meet the dogs, document the backyard and YOU start the conversation about the neighbor making complaints and show what you have done to ensure EVERYONE'S safety. BE PROACTIVE! The neighbor may be blowing smoke, but you don't know for sure and it is never good to get caught unaware. They are dogs, you can't guarantee what they would or wouldn't do, please do not assume that their bark is always going to be worse than their bite.
It is easier and better for you and the dogs to be the ones to show that you have taken steps to make sure you have done everything you can to make the situation good rather than having to respond to complaints from next door. Take it from someone who has gone to school of Hard Knocks, the police and animal control will be your friends, have them work with you, show that you are trying to be the bigger person, but it's harder for them to take that stance if they have to come to you regarding complaints.
Sorry for the long post, just remember to CYA.