sharismom
Posted : 12/21/2009 9:26:00 AM
I am glad it wasn't far worse, Gina.
Honestly, I am totally terrified of fire, almost to the point of phobia-like fear. I cannot even light a match or a regular lighter. Many years ago, as a child, I had the schoolbus bully light my long hair on fire. Fortunately a quick-thinking older friend stopped it immediately. Had another incident where a kid tried to burn me with the flaming end of his stick we were using to toast marshmallows. (I was about 7).
As an adult, my ex-h caused fires in two different houses we had because of his drunken stupid a$s. The first involved a woodstove. Had our dogs not woken us up, we all would have died - including my son, who was an infant at the time. Second time was a grease fire. He forgot the pan was on and went with me and son to walk the dogs. The thing flashed over and poof - less than 10 minutes destroyed the kitchen and caused major smoke damage throughout the apartment.
I totally understand how scared you were.