Dreams - what do you think?

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    Dreams - what do you think?

     I had the weirdest dream last night.  Have fun picking it apart if you want to!  I don't know WHAT was in my subconscious to throw out so many vivid details.... Sorry it's long!

    In my dream, my DH and I were not living in *this* house.  We were living in a kind of flat, on the first or second floor I think, with a communal courtyard outside.  We had no pets and no William. 

    You know those kind of open steps, with no back?  Well those were the kind of stairs we had down to the door to outside, kind of wooden but with metal strips.  Pretty ugly.  There was no lift.  The stairwell was pretty gloomy, all brown and grey, no carpet, with a very clinical feel.  There was a rough brown mat by the doors, they were large double doors.

    In my dream, I had gone outside after an argument with DH.  I think I was a little upset and teary.  There was a kind of concrete shelter outside, like a bus shelter.  I went in there and huddled there in my coat looking out at the rain. 

    A movement in the corner of the shelter caught my eye and I looked round and there were some bright red flowers there.  I turned to lok at them because I couldn't remember seing them before and they looked odd.  But when I went closer I saw they were in the shape of a dog and I pushed the flowers away and there was a smooth coated brown puppy there in the middle of the flowers.  He was shivering and weak and skinny looking.  Cold and damp.  He was whimpering as I got closer and obviously scared.

    Well of course I had to  pick him up and take him indoors and get him dry and warm and see if I could find out where he came from.  I have a vague sense of DH being cross with me about this in my dream, something about "no more dogs!" (although in my dream there were no others).  I didn't WANT to find this pup a home or take him to the shelter despite my promises.  I got attached to him. 

    We kept him overnight and he made no mess indoors.  I went out the following morning and he got past me really fast and BOUNCED down the stairs!  I dashed after him, and he was unhurt but he had an accident by the front door - he couldn't quite hold on long enough.  But I didn't scold him, I took him outside and he ran about and gradually changed to a sleek and glossy black puppy, well fed and happy, confident and cuddly, and more like a dobie than the labX he had started out looking like.  I had him on my lap rubbing his tummy and loving him and he gazed up at me with these gorgeous brown eyes.  I had this kind of warm, happy feeling.... and the dream kind of fizzled out and I woke up.

    Go on - whatcha think?

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    Your bliss is a puppy? Smile

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    I think the universe is going to send you something/someone to love.

    I could point out each of the potential symbols, but only you will know how it fits into your life if it makes any sense.  But I, personally, think you will have a love enter your life to renew you from your dad's passing and bring you from dreary feelings to warmth and love.

    (BTW, right after a very upsetting episode in my life recently, I had a dream that very clearly involved a dog that I just *know* is somewhere in my life.  Maybe in the future, maybe he means something else, but it was a ROCK of something I needed to hold onto.  I think it's special when a dog appears like that in our dreams when we need them most.)

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    I think it was one of those dreams sent to help ... despite what you know to be 'real' life this was your real life in the dream (temporarily -- like sometimes we're put in circumstances that just don't feel 'right' but it's where we are THEN).

    You didn't stay in the situation to argue -- you sought peace.  But you didn't stay 'inward' -- you looked out into the rain and the gloom and you *found* something wonderful there. 

    This was about addressing your needs and your pain, Chuffy.  And the dog 'changed' -- with love he blossomed and grew and ... was what you needed to bring you happiness.

    Now no -- your answer isn't a dog, but the dog is simply the language YOU speak.  This dream kind of helps purge the pain you're in ... and to know that in things to come even something ugly and difficult for you (like the stairs without backs) will be no obstacle at all in the future. 

    With love and understanding your pain will blossom and disappear.  In fact, if you watch carefully you may even have a project of some sort come your way that you will be able to pour yourself into in order to heal. 

    Out of pain will come healing because you won't look inward ... but instead will look for the place to do good and you will *find* something hiding there ready to blossom.  It may well be connected with your Dad -- dogs are simply something YOU understand and they are something you find good and peace and innocence in. 

    It could be a spiritual dream -- it may simply be your own inner personality exerting what it knows it will need to heal.  But I would be very encouraged. 

    But your healing won't come because your husband or even family will be a crutch.  Not even William.  But something you look for and find 'hiding'.  to me that's pretty darned well adjusted and "whole". 

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    Anyone care to help me out on this dream? I've had it 2 nights in a row now.....it's scaring me....

    In my dream....

    I wake up(myself in the dream) and go outside to check on Sam like I do every morning(Sam's currently kenneled outside). I walk towards his kennel, he's laying with his back against the kennel door, and isn't moving. I open the door and Sam's dead. It looked like another dog had attacked him(his stomach was....errr....gutted), but his kennel door was locked, so were the 2 gates into our backyard. His kennel is 6ft tall chain link, and no one heard a sound all night, and my Dad wakes up when a hat drops.

    Anyone want to tell me what it might means?! It's got me scared to even go outside to check on him in the mornings....I really *couldn't* handle that right now....

     

    Edited : Sorry I can't help you with your dream Chuffy....but Callie seems to know what she's talkin' about! I'm no good at figuring out meanings anyway...

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     Callie, there are some great thoughts here - about the fact that it was raining and I was "looking out"; I had not thought of that!

    I have thought of a couple of things.  The most obvious one, to me, is that the puppy is my dad - weak, thin and scared at the beginning of my dream, but "free", happy, healthy and transformed at the end.  I couldn't explain the colour change tho. 

    It is strange that one of the vivid parts of my dream was where he couldn't "hold on" quite long enough... 

    It is also strange that I found bright red flowers where normally there would be no life, or only weeds... maybe denoting that there is something poignant and valuable to be taken from what has happened, when at first it seems there is nothing at all, or only desolation and despair. 

    Now that I think about it, the stairs I described, the stairwell and doorway, kinda make me think "clinical" - like a hospital, suggesting (or sugested by) illness...

    It's funny how the mind works, and how even in the worst kind of trauma, the mind can adjust re-centre you, keeping you sane and whole!

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     Callie, there are some great thoughts here - about the fact that it was raining and I was "looking out"; I had not thought of that!

    I have thought of a couple of things.  The most obvious one, to me, is that the puppy is my dad - weak, thin and scared at the beginning of my dream, but "free", happy, healthy and transformed at the end.  I couldn't explain the colour change tho. 

    It is strange that one of the vivid parts of my dream was where he couldn't "hold on" quite long enough... 

    It is also strange that I found bright red flowers where normally there would be no life, or only weeds... maybe denoting that there is something poignant and valuable to be taken from what has happened, when at first it seems there is nothing at all, or only desolation and despair. 

    Now that I think about it, the stairs I described, the stairwell and doorway, kinda make me think "clinical" - like a hospital, suggesting (or sugested by) illness...

    It's funny how the mind works, and how even in the worst kind of trauma, the mind can adjust re-centre you, keeping you sane and whole!

    I think you've absolutely tacked it all down very well -- particularly the vivid color of the flowers.  If we only look sometimes the best things really aren't hard to see if we only LOOK for them.