calliecritturs
Posted : 9/18/2008 10:38:20 AM
We did this when we got Tinkerbell and I will never miss this trick again!
Drop a cheap washcloth in your dog's bed AT NIGHT. Let him sleep on it and then fold it up and put it in a ziplock bag and seal it.
Also include something for you and the other resident humans -- a washcloth or piece of cloth that has your scent on it. Again put them in *separate* ziplock bags and send it to the person who currently has this new dog you're getting.
Ask them to do the same thing and send YOU her towel/washcloth. Then on each end introduce the dog in a really calm "Hey, look at this" thing and even then drop the cloth from the other dog in their bed at night.
There is *something* about sleeping -- the scent of a sleeping, relaxed dog is unique. When they then meet (and everyone has given you great advice above) they literally will be old friends. They've "smelled" each other before in a completely relaxed state (and *at home*).
I exchanged "scent boxes" like this with the woman who was Tink's foster mom and she sent me a dirty towel of Tink's.
Now I did include in the package for Tink a pillowcase for each of David and I. It was easy and since David had gone to work that day I just peeled off those pillowcases and sent one for each of us. IT WAS AWESOME.
When the rescue group and Tink met us at the motel (we drove all the way to Texas to get her and none of my pack had met her) she literally LEPT into David’s and my arms as though she’d known us FOREVER.
I will never forget it – we were in the lobby and she was still about 4 feet away from us and she gave one sniff and literally LEPT out of Rita’s arms into mine and cuddled into David with her head. You would have thot she’d known us well. And ... further ... when it came time for the rescue to leave, she barely knew it she was so relaxed and comfortable with us.
Then after we arrived back in Orlando (3 days later) and I went to pick up Billy. They met on leash in a grassy area it was all "oh, hi" and wags. When I opened the car door she got in and Billy literally got up and cuddled right beside her!! (that’s not typical for him)
When Luna and Kee met her, it was the same story – "Oh hi again, wassup?" -- no big posturing, no careful circling. You literally would have thought they were all OLD OLD friends. There was never any tension or typical ‘newbie’ stuff - it was, quite honestly, absolutely amazing.
I’m convinced the fact that we used "sleeping scents" helped enormously both for the dogs and us. But I'm sure you'll find this will put this dog at ease *very* quickly both with you and your resident dog.
In fact, the funny thing is - the only thing that did freak Tink out at all was the bird!! I never thot to include anything of Hooties -- next time I would!!