Ok, I can't take it anymore. My parents have been arguing for over a year now. One day they are fighting and my mom's calling me crying saying there's someone else and he's cheating on her (she has no proof) and the next day she's defending him saying they are fine. The last straw was she called me at midnight last night crying saying that she thought he was going to punch her in her face tonight. Now I don't know how true this is as my mother can be very over dramatic at times. I told her, either divorce or counseling and I am not the counselor!
At this point, and my Gram didn't know what to tell me, I'm thinking of telling my mother either go to counseling and work things out or get a divorce and move on, but if this continues they won't be seeing or hearing from me anymore until something changes. I'm her go to person when she's upset, but she has no problem yelling at me and defending him and contradicting what she told me a week ago when they are ok. I'm so sick of it and aggravated. Last year she had me thinking he was cheating on her, and I called him on it and I got in a load of trouble.
I was patient about it in the beginning but this has been going on way too long and I have my own problems to deal with. Not to mention when she's upset she calls my phone constantly and I only have so many minutes a month (which I have told her about many times). Ugh!!!!!!!!!
*Thanks for the vent*