g33
Posted : 4/14/2008 3:57:51 PM
I am not a fan of "putting" a baby on a schedule. I do think two months is too young. At this age, they switch up their preferences and patterns every two weeks or so. Feed your baby when he is hungry. Let him sleep when he is tired. Record the times he eats and durations on an excel spreadsheet, and then as time passes you can go back and notice patterns starting to emerge. By about 3 months, your baby should have a pretty good "rough" schedule. But I do suggest you let the baby determine that schedule.
Edited to add: by "rough" schedule - I mean something like this. I know that within 2 hours of Shannon waking up, she's going to want to nap. (Regardless of WHEN she wakes up). Nap may range anywhere from 30 minutes to two hours. I know that she likes to eat about every 2.5 - 3 hours (nurse) so when the day starts, I know about the times I should expect her to be hungry. I know she'll either take three 30-45 minute naps a day or she'll take two big long ones. And I know that she will ALWAYS be ready for bed at 7:30pm come hell or high water (THAT part of her day is etched in stone).
I strongly suggest visiting www.kellymom.com and checking out their forums. You'll see lots of posts on schedules and what works/what doesn't.
Yes, they are going to be up and down and seemingly pattern-less at his age. I KWIM about how hard it is to get things done, but its something that we just have to roll with and get used to. I used to put my daughter in a carrier and wear her around the house on the days she didn't take long naps. It worked great and she often fell asleep in there!
One suggestion is to try to keep YOUR routine as consistent as possible. Make sure that you get up at the same time every day, go to bed at the same time every day. If you're going to leave the house with the baby, try to make sure and be home for feedings and keep your evening routine consistent.
HTH!!