Mouth Games

    • Gold Top Dog

    Mouth Games

    Hello,

    Well, our 2 year old and 8 week old English Setters are getting used to each other. At first, Relay, our older one didn't want anything to do with Dash, our puppy. But after just a few days, they were both looking around the house for each other, needing to be in the same room, sleeping near each other, etc. Relay now even takes naps in a pet bed she wasn't very interested in before just because it is next to Dash's crate when she naps. It is very sweet. Also, Relay used to go through her greeting ritual with us each time we got home (this seriously took 5-10 minutes), but now she says a quick hello and then runs to Dash's crate because she wants to see her. So, with getting used to each other, they are also playing. They are definitely playing MOUTH GAMES. Some matches concern me a bit and that is what caused me to write this post. My husband says they are just playing and I think they are too. But, it looks so rough! Sometimes they are more gentle than others, but sometimes they go all out, biting at each other's ears, limbs, necks, etc. Sometimes the puppy moans and whines and lets out these screechy barks. Her upper lip also curls up. Relay is more laid back, less whining/barking, but is definitely holding her own. We think she is the dominant one - she puts her front legs over Dash, she calls off the playing when it is done, she gives the warnings about being too close to her things, etc. So, I guess I am just looking for some reassurance that this is normal and as long as it is supervised, especially in these crucial first weeks, there is nothing to worry about. What do you all think?

    Thanks!

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    Sounds like what I call "bite face". As long as there is not any extreme outward aggression I don't think it is a problem. They are just playing. When my dogs play it can get what I think as rough. If one dog "hurts" the other dog it comes to a crashing HALT on their own. That is how I know it is fun. Neither dog is trying to hurt the other. Once they both know all is good, play continues. You would know if it were "aggressive". The snarling would be MUCH different. My pup plays this way with both my dogs. However when she plays with my lab she will latch on to her. It looks painful to me, if Belle doesn't want to play she just walks away. I try not to interfere, my dogs have never been aggressive with each other. However they do have to establish rules amongst themselves, so I try to allow that. When we first got the pup, my senior Maxine would have NOTHING to do with her. She would growl and snap (never contact made) The pup had to respect that. Now the two are best friends, but Teddi respects Max and if she doesn't want to play Teddi looks elsewhere. It sounds to me like they have accepted each other. If this type of play concerns you, distract them and play with them in another fashion.
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    Sounds like perfectly normal play to me.  When there is a cry, is the pup going back for more?  If so, let them be.  But if the pup is unable to escape the older dog, that's a problem.  I would always supervise their play, but it really sounds quite normal to me.

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    Glenda in my house it was the older dogs who couldn't escape the puppy! LOL She won't take no for an answer. You WILL be her friend.
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     Yup, as long as nobody is contuisly trying to get away and being relentlessly pursued, all is good in the world of Mouthy Land.  My dogs fairly Roar at each other when they really get going.  And my little one will let out a yelp if something hurts, and then the big one will let off a bit.  And the little one jumps right back in.

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    Thanks, guys.

     Glenmar, YES, the pup just keeps on going back for more!!! Yikes!