I assume complete responsibility for the following, please dont be to hard on me.....
Every once in awhile when we are in a hurry we'll leave the house wihout a collar. About a hour ago DH had to be picked up from the eye doctor early so we rushed out. When we came home that mean ole kitty was next to our gate and Rory spotted her first thing. She was focused on me but I could tell she was struggling (we've been working on distraction from the kitty) BUT stupid me again, I didnt have any treats, I was in my cozy clothes and caught off guard. This cat is not one to back down so what did I do? I picked Rory up.....OH MY she stiffened up....no prob. The problem is that now she is acting fearful, the lil stinker. I didnt reprimand her, it was my error. And after we got inside the gate I spoke to her in a noce voice, asked her if she wanted food and she sulked in the corner
tail between her legs and dosnt even wanna come up on the bed?
Is she spoiled, crazy, or did I make a big wrong move?