boscos_mom -- I'm SO glad Outdoorschik posted because altho I'm catching up after work the FIRST thing I thot of when I read your post was Oliver!! And talk about a pup having a rough start!
My guess is it's a combination of things and this vet may not be the perfect one for you. You're learning a LOT tho, and sometimes that's worth it's weight in gold!!
Yeah -- you gotta ASK
"what med is this? what does "cough tabs" mean and please make the label more clear"
"are we trying to suppress this cough or make him cough MORE up?"
"if two x-rays were 'bad' then why am I being charged? can you work with me on this please?"
You don't have to walk into another vet and say "Vet A was bad" ... but you get your records and say to Vet B "Well, you know, I've got no loud complaints but somehow Vet A and I just didn't click -- I tend to be more of a hands-on owner and I'm inquisitive, so if I ask you what, when, why and where please don't think I'm questioning your judgment -- I just want to learn. So check him over and tell me how we're coming."
Probably you will only be allowed to BORROW the x-rays -- and you may have to have Vet B's office call and ask for them. Typically x-rays are regarded as the property of the clinic (and that goes for human ones as well unfortunately) but professional courtesy demands Vet B be allowed to borrow them.
However, I constantly keep my own file on my dogs -- and I just plain make it a habit to get copies of any significant blood tests, results, etc. -- so asking for a copy of your file should be routine, particularly since this dog has been extremely ill. You don't need to elaborate -- maybe you're going for a second opinion or a specialist and I wouldn't be any more complete in explaining than that!! don't burn your bridges until you've crossed them. The second vet won't appreciate a bad attitude from you -- they are all professionals so you don't want to start out on a sour grapes start with Vet B. If they think the dog has not been treated properly you're gonna know it.
If you're supposed to suppress the cough I can give you the same recipe I gave Outdoorschik for Oliver (she's in the northeast and I"m in Floor-da *grin* but I'm Oliver's Aunt, right Outdoorschik?? He's MY BOY!!!!! well, one of them, but there's a special Oliver sized hole in Aunt Callie's heart, right??).
You can get slippery elm in bulk in a lot of places -- or you can get it in capsules in any health store and just empty them.
Local honey (from a produce stand -- you don't want it filtered -- the bee pollen is good for them).
Fresh lemon (RealLemon if you don't have access to real lemon is fine)
Start with like a half cup of honey and enough lemon juice to make it real runny -- then take a rounded teaspoon of slippery elm bark and add it to 1/3 cup of HOT water, then mix that into the honey and lemon.
IF IF IF You need to suppress the cough or if the cough is persistent you can add:
IF you can get licorice root capsules from a health store add 2-3 capsules to this mixture (empty the caps). Licorice is a good anti-inflammatory and it's good for a cough.
But slippy elm, honey and lemon is an awesome cough syrup for dog or man. You can give him all he wants of it (use a plastic spoon -- teach him to open his mouth and let you pour it in -- it's great fun and good for them).
What outdoorschik said about the vaporizer and the hot shower steam is GREAT.
I assume this little guy is on antibiotics?? Are you giving a probiotic? I'd suggest just plain old yogurt (any flavor that doesn't have nutrasweet in it is fine) -- just make sure you give it 2 hours 'off' from the antibiotic so the antibiotic doesn't kill the friendly bacteria in the yogurt.
Good luck -- keep at it. You're learning valuable stuff and you're building a great bond with this dog. Teach him "this will help -- come get your messinine!!" - if he sees medicine as a good thing trust me -- some day you will be SOOOOO glad he takes it easy. Try burying pills in butter or braunschweiger or even ricotta cheese. EASY.
BUT don't try to hide it -- TELL him it's medicine and it's to 'help' him. Teaching a pup to take meds is a good lifelong thing. It teaches them to come to YOU for help and that is a very very GOOD thing.