sandra_slayton
Posted : 7/3/2006 12:09:00 PM
Our oldest son would smoke if dating a girl that smoked, not smoke if dating a non smoker. The one he married (after dating for 7 years) is a smoker and will not even consider quitting and he has smoked since they started dating 14 years ago. She smoked thru both pregnancies, drank a dozen cokes a day, lots of coffee and both babies had cafienne (?) withdrawal (I had never heard of it). Her attitude is it is her life and she will do what she wants to. It drove me nuts to see her giving a bottle to the baby---with a cigarette in her mouth. If I said anything, I am trying to interfer with her life, nobody needs to tell her about raising kids, etc, etc.
Our youngest son never smoked and would not date a girl who did. Alsways said he wanted to kiss a mouth, not an ashtray.