Julie Byers
Posted : 5/29/2006 3:28:37 PM
We went to a flag ceremony this morning. The VFW was showing a handful of girlscouts how to handle our flags properly, there was a brief opening prayer, the playing of taps, a gun salute, and a few words to thank those who helped put the ceremony together including motorcycle cops who helped with traffic. It made my heart swell to bring my two children. I took my eight year old daughter and had her stand tall with her hand over her heart and pay her respects. My two year old boy didn't understand what was happening but I was able to get him to stand quietly with his little hand over his heart as well. He took his left hand and placed it over my heart, saying "Baby-mommy heart". It was hard not to fall apart. I was kneeling between them talking softly to my kids; explaining the importance of the flag ceremony, as my son's daddy stood tall and saluted smartly, as he is a veteren as well. It was a great experience, and made my heart swell. When it came time for the guns to fire in salute, my boy smiled and said, "fireworks!". A few people smiled at his innocent comment. I was very surprised and disappointed at how many people who were working, and carrying on as though it were no special thing today. Lots of people just went about their business, and I didn't see any parades. It is never out of style to pay respect to our nation's fallen servicemen and women. I felt it was very important to instruct my children to remove hats, to be silent, to place their right hand over their heart, and to think of those who gave their lives and of the families who live everyday without loved ones. We flew our flag today with pride. I hope everyone paused to give thanks and remember our fallen. Jules