MissMandy
Posted : 1/31/2007 1:10:51 PM
LOL! you guys crack me up! Trust me, I would be the same way!!
Yes, I will definitely share the details when I can. It's the least I can do for all the positive vibes and prayers I've gotten from you all so far! [
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It's certainly not anything I'm proud of at all. We all make mistakes, I know, but this one was just over the top...and not anything I expected out of MY husband of all people, ya know? I feel like the white-trash wife even talking about it to anyone.
In a nutshell, DH was chatting with women on the internet (which I didn't know about to begin with). As you can imagine, some of the conversation was not exactly "church-worthy", if ya know what I mean...Well, a detective posing as someone underage began chatting with DH, and DH allegedly made some inappropraite propositions (there were no pictures, no attempts to meet in person or anything...just talking), so here we are...yeah, pretty disgusting, huh? They did a complete scan of our hard drive, and found nothing else. So, thank God, this was the only illegal action they found. I don't know if I could have handled it had they found anything else.
I seriously cannot believe that this has become a part of my life now. I have chosen to stay with him and work this out, but it's going to be a long road. I know he's a good man, and that he has a problem, and I'm going to give him a chance. He's already been seeing a psychotherapist about his internet addictions, and we've been going to a marriage counselor as well, so we're on the right path. It's just going to be a bumpy one for quite some time! [&:]
Anyway, now I've spilled it. I can give any of you who are still curious the complete run-down of everything tomorrow, that is if everything goes as we want it to. So keep praying and hoping for us. I'm just hoping that the outcome of all of this will be as little life-altering as possible...