calliecritturs
Posted : 10/4/2012 9:51:26 PM
Many people just assume -- and they want to **Blame** someone. It's known you have more than one dog so **OBVIOUSLY** (grrrrrr) it has to be you. Not!!
It's likely not even someone who knows dogs -- only know that they HATE them. (It's incomprehensible to people like that that most owners actually know WHICH dog did what!)
A friend of mine lived in a townhome community -- she'd been active on her neighborhood board until she got pregnant and then she had to resign just because she didn't carry well. One night she had JUST walked in with her two dogs (both females) to the phone ringing and an irate voice screaming "YOU DID ***NOT** PICK UP!!!!*
She was confused == she'd been in the common area, but neither of her girls had pooped -- both had simply peed. She remained calm (not easy) and invited the woman to please please meet her in the common area and SHOW her the offensive pile. "Neither of my girls went, but I have a ton of poop bags on me and I'll be happy to clear away whatever it is!"
The woman actually did meet her --- FULL of fire and brimstone and anger -- and my friend repeated and SHOWED the woman the bags and said 'I was hoping they would because I'll have to walk them again before bed -- but please show me what you have found!"
The woman stomped over and POINTED to exactly where both girls had peed. There was *no* poop.
My friend said "I don't see anything but yes, both of my girls peed in exactly that spot"
"YOU DID NOT SCOOP!!!!!!! I SAW YOU!!!!! THEY WENT RIGHT THERE!!"
Caron said "Yes, they both peed!"
"NO THEY DID NOT -- NEITHER LIFTED THEIR LEG!!!"
Caron said (trying hard NOT to laugh) "But ma'am -- they're both girls -- they squat. Male dogs lift their legs. Girl dogs squat. You saw them pee -- not poop."
Did the woman apologize? no. of course not.
I doubt ANYONE *saw* your dogs -- they identified YOU as someone who walked by their home ergo -- it *had* to be you!
If it were me? I'd try to find out who it was. Then I'd leave a nice little "kit" on their porch -- A container of poop bags, some plastic gloves, and a nice note. I wouldn't be ratty (no matter how mad you are -- you'll catch more flies with honey than vinegar) But say something like "See - I get my bags at Petco and I always get the pink (blue, whatever) ones. If I have to carry something it might as well be attractive. I tend to go overboard and I always have gloves as well as poop bags. Unfortunately you didn't catch the right culprit -- it honestly wasn't my dogs - but it infuriates me SO MUCH when people don't scoop. Obviously it makes it more difficult on the rest of us. If you DO figure out who is either walking and not scooping OR if you can identify the dogs who may be allowed to be loose and off leash -- if you'll let me know at 215 Blane Street, I'll get some other dog-woning neighbors together and we'll watch out for them - it would help to know the breed of dog and what time they stopped at your yard."
They'll believe you -- no one who was guilty would bother to be nice. You won't win, but you'll make a strong point. YOU scoop. And not all dog owners are stupid and self-serving.
I am sorry -- it hurts to be "singled out" when you're one of the ones who DOES do it right. It's very likely someone who is convinced they hate dogs JUST because "they make a mess".