Any anyone who has read my own "Dog in Danger" thread ... I don't know where they got the original idea that pugs were cute, etc. but this woman completely missed the mark with ALL her "researcH" and she's been looking for SIX MONTHS.
But I'm going to put my own 2 cents in here. Whether it's John Q. Public or his wife/s.o. Suzy Q Public you know what they often AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE???
Negative stuff. They dismiss it as radicals, or "people just using the net for their own agenda" -- so all those hot threads, nasty-but-honest diatribes about how horrible byb's are and how irresponsible it is to get a dog that way or breed a dog that way?
People IGNORE it. Because most people who are looking for a dog are looking for something to 'feel good' or a good thing. And if threads turn unpleasant, and people argue, and fuss and get nasty -- John Q Public just skips that one.
On here, we tend to be passionate. Often passionately angry for the dogs and how *they* suffer.
But if we want John Q. Public and his family and friends to listen, you gotta stay nice. You've got to make it make sense without wounding them in the process.
We get jaded. We get angry. Heaven knows, we clean up "Messes" enough. And I think sometimes we *need* to vent to each other.
I came really really close to crossing the line to "they're not EVER going to listen to me" with Pugster's (f/k/a "Bo bo";) new owners. Yep, the husband fell in love, and they're going to "give it a month".
Do they UNDERSTAND that in a month he's in a socialization danger zone? To they UNDERSTAND what horrible things can happen to a baby and a teething pup in just 30 seconds of being unsupervised?
No, and they're really not willing to listen. Unfortunately not everyone IS willing to listen.
I honestly wish that every single AKC entry and every breed-rescue website would start out with an obligatory paragraph like this (tailored to the breed):
Pugs!! Great little companions! Think *maybe* you'd like a pug?
Would you like a dog that sheds more than nearly any breed on the planet? Pugs are for YOU!
Would you like a dog that is so incredibly social that it MUST either have someone at home 24/7 or at the very least other dogs it can lay on, harass, drag around by the ear or at the very least sleep UPON all the time? Pugs are for YOU!
Would you like a dog that will exercise your benevolence towards your vet? Because you'll likely contribute often -- if your breeder hasn't done an excellent job (and leftover-puppies or "we have just a couple left" or "we have a brand new litter to see!" are among those breeders who will keep your vet trips frequent and dexpensive!!). Why?
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demodectic mange (mange? YEP!)
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a huge array of eye problems (or eye *injury* problems, see below)
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frequently seizure dogs
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myriad skin problems (in those cute facial folds, too)
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immune problems
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respiratory problems galore!!
Pugs are for you!
Want a dog who is high energy, bounces off walls and really needs to be kept BUSY ??? Pugs are for you!
Want a dog who is social and may be happy to play with children, but who is also incredibly fragile and easily injured (eye problems, knee problems, and if not well bred may have a temperament problem or feel too sick to be played with? Pugs are for you!!
Think maybe you need to consider it some more? Please keep reading. But just be aware, while you do your research and looking, that pugs are really not for everyone. We love our little puggies. We like to dress them up and have them be "cute" -- but they are an immense amount of work and care, and are **not** hypoallergenic dogs.
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so many breeders online are just doing the easy cottage home-industry thing to pick up extra money. Is that going to get any better soon?
Heck no -- because now, more than ever, people are looking for easy money.
The answer is not to legislate ourselves into oblivion. The answer is to simply talk, *nicely* and engage people in conversation where they might listen. Not just beat them up.
Yes we have to educate each other too -- but don't think the endless threads that have all ended in acrimoney on here do even one thing to "warn" people not to get badly bred dogs. People just don't read them. We might ... but they don't.
That was crystal clear to me in talking to this woman. She KNEW I was a source. She KNEW I was an e-mail away (and she emails me ALL the time). But she really didn't want to learn anything really negative. She wanted a solution to a particular problem -- and she really didn't want to see a whole lot that would burst that particular bubble.
It's typical. People might have one or two hot buttons they want to satisfy like 'good with children' or 'hypoallergenic'. And those tend to be the words that byb's exploit on their websites or advertising. So someone searches for "pugs good with children"?? Guess whose websites they're going to see FIRST!!!
and only $300 and $210 shipping! (that phrase will churn in my gut forever!! and they drove TO Georgia to save the $210!!! and get the dog FASTER!)
I'm not trying to hijack this -- because all I've just said applies to doodle breeders and every other highly-advertised designer breed AND every over-bred breed. Take a look on a pug rescue site and count the puggles!! Rita says they take an incredible number of puggles in because they are *not* what they are portrayed to be. Sweet little dogs but most of them with all the potential problems of a pug or a beagle. Not fewer.