BannedBreed Lover
Posted : 5/31/2008 11:50:12 PM
What an angel of a puppy you have! 
Well... I can say that having lived with a dog who had extreme separation anxiety, it takes ALOT of work to correct.
First, make sure that with every bit of attention, food, treats, obedience, walks, play, cuddles... anything.. make Sam work for that 'reward' from you. It sounds like I'm advocating running a boot camp, or being very harsh or cruel; but Sam needs to learn boundaries in your home, and that nothing he gets will be for free. So when you want to give him his breakfast, have Sam do a sit/stay, wait a min or two and give him his breakfast. You want to have cuddle time with Sam, do the same sit/stay or down/stay command, wait then reward him with your attention. Trust me it will be very difficult for YOU not Sam. I found that it was a natural reaction to just reach down and touch my dog, or when I was about to take her for a walk I let her bolt out of the door first (another no no! you first, then dog). Keep all of his toys off the ground and only let him play with them when your wanting to initiate playtime (this can help prevent toy possession).
Our Dane, when left alone in a wire crate for just 45 minutes, would: drool, vomit, defecate, urinate and self mutilate. It took a LONG time to work on correcting that behavior. Positive training, short sessions and control of her environment all were key in the training. Now too that agility has gained in popularity, you could possibly enroll Sam in classes (providing he does know his basic commands) which would be a big confidence booster for him.
Ideally your goal would be to have a well behaved dog who can be left alone for periods of at least 4 hours, in either a crate or in a gated off room, possibly left with a stuffed kong or durable toy to provide mental stimulation. Don't jump into this too big, expecting Sam to be able to handle total aloneness with free reign of the house. While training too I always have a rule: If I can't physically watch them, or be with them, then I use the crate; but as a whole, I use a 'lifeline' tethered to me. This way the dog learns house placement, as well as manners. Hopefully some of these suggestions will prevent you from having to use a shock collar.
Good Luck! I wish you and Sam all the best with your training!
Hopefully some of this helped.... :)
Ashley