amstaffy
Posted : 5/20/2006 10:54:29 PM
Remali,
I am a breeder...I'm also all about educating which is why MY post was so informative.
Being a newer member you haven't seen the influx of people coming here with no clue, but they want to jump feet first into breeding...who suffers? Most of the times its the dogs due to neglect of having a mentor, not having the first clue about a dogs heat cycle and worse yet not knowing the signs of labor. Education, health, temperament, soundness, structure and simple knowledge of the breed you *think* you want to breed should be first on the list before any breeding thoughts should be in your mind. I've been in Am Staffs since 1994, I show, I health test. Frenchies are my second breed I've been owned by them for 7 years, I had my first litter 2 years ago and my second litter 6 weeks ago...I took the time to learn all about the breed, healthe test my dogs and finish her championship prior to doing all of this.
I spent many hours with other breeders picking their brains regarding their dogs, talked to judges and went to seminars for both of my breeds to be sure I knew what I was getting into way before a thought of breeding entered my head, not 5 months after I got my first bitch...theres a lot to learn and as I also offered my own help IF this person was interested in doing it RIGHT
Many people come here with no knowledge and want validation, I'm sorry I won't do that. If they are truely dedicated to the breed, for the betterment of the breed I will help anyone in any breed learn and find a mentor.
This forum is for helping, I also now read the OP and her husband are having second thoughts. I think second thoughts are good because they can now discuss if they have the time to take off of work and basically stop their lives for the first two weeks of these little babies lives to make sure momma doesn't lay on one because of her size she would never know her babie was dying under her. Would they recognize the warning signs of fadding puppies? What if momma goes into labor and there is a pup stuck? would they know?
Some times letting nature take it's course doesn't prove to be the things to do...recently a woman I know wanted to breed a litter of Bulldogs, I spoke with her and offered what needed to be done, they did not heed my suggestions, they "THOUGHT" momma was in labor as she has "mucus" when she peed so they rushed her to the vet early for her c-section. None of the pups lived past 24 hours becaue someone wanted to breed...a perfect waste of life IMO...stories like this make me offer spaying/neutering to people unless they want to hear my lessons of breedings and thurst for knowledge and still want to persue breeding even knowing the heart aches that come along with it.
I could fill up pages and pages on this forum of breedings/litters gone bad of my own experiences and other breeders I know. Just last week another frenchie breeder whos been breeding about 10 years had her bitch in for her C-section...she came home with two pups and no momma because she dies through complications because of the scar tissue from her previous litter...yeah, horror stories, things to break your heart...it5's ALL reality when you decide you want to breed your dog...people need to know it isn't all smiles and puppy breath...all that aside from the over population