My brother passed away yesterday (CoBuHe)

I'm so very sorry to hear about your brother's passing.  I'm sure there have been many tears throughout his illness, but no matter how much "notice" we have, we just don't feel completely prepared to say goodbye.  He sounds like a very special man.  I loved hearing about his wood carving artistry.  My husband took up carving a year ago, and I have a new appreciation for it.  When you said that, I immediatey thought of how you can run your hands over those finished pieces exactly where his hands must've gone as he used his tools to make each piece of wood take it's new shape.  Those are treasured ways to have him with you always - it's like his energy is in each carving. 

My condolences to you and the rest of your family.

We are so sorry to read about your brother.  My brother and I are very close even though we are four years apart in age.  As someone said, it's a special relationship.

I am so very sorry for your loss.  My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

 I'm so sorry.  I wish you healing thoughts to help you through this hard time.

 Coming in a bit late as I still have a hard time with this part of the forum, but I want you to know how sorry I am, and let you know that I feel that my husband met David and showed him around that great "Work Shop in the Sky."  John was a fine furniture maker and prided himself on a good finish, and of course he would be there. 

Hugs to you and your family...

Thanks so much Marty.....and everyone.  My brother's memorial service is tomorrow.  I wrote a eulogy and will stand and read it.  I'm not a good public speaker, so I pray for courage and strength to be able to stand and read my tribute to the group.  I haven't read it to anyone, not even DH.  I hope everyone will enjoy it.  But mostly, I hope that I don't trip over my tongue or mis-read.

Send me your best iDog "be brave, and read well" vibes tomorrow afternoon. 

Trust me - whatever you say and however you say it will be from your heart and so appreciated. Your brother would be so very proud to hear you speak of him. Hugs and "read well" vibes to you.

Barbara, you will do fine, your brother will have his hand on your shoulder, though you might not see it.  My heart will be with you and my prayers. 

 You have my condolences and I will keep you in my thoughts.  You will see him again.  In time the wonderful memories you have and the beautiful pieces he made will give you comfort and make you smile.  Just one more thing.... Bruder's name seems so much more poignant to me now.  I had not thought of it like that before. 

I am so very sorry about your brother at least you know he was at peace and is no longer suffering in his weak earthly body but is now by the Masters side.

Chuffy

Just one more thing.... Bruder's name seems so much more poignant to me now.  I had not thought of it like that before.

Neither had I...thanks for that thought Chuffy.  THAT will stay in my heart forever. 

The service was phenominal.  The room was exactly as David would have loved.  My reading was flawless.  People laughed at the right spots, whew!  I had so many compliments afterwards which made it all the better.  And, my daughter, another artist (and thespian), told me how proud she was.  That felt so nice.  David must have been at my side as I read. 

I think people might have thought me a bit eccentric, because I placed my hands on all of the pieces that he carved...soaking in all his energy.  But, I didn't care.

Here are some pictures I wanted to share of the room; which was perfect.

Thank you everyone who has shared this with me.  Your kindness and understanding has helped me through this and will going forward.  And, here is my brother, the coolest angel in heaven:

Gosh, that room looks so serene and peaceful. It's exactly what I'd want for a service for myself. The picture of your brother is perfect too. I'm so glad it all went well and I'm sure your brother was very, very pleased.

So glad that the memorial went beautifully, the setting was wonderful. I think people knew and shared your desire to touch your brother's creations, if not, then who cares what they think. lol  Your brother's spirit lives on and I know your pain will change to ache and then to joy when you meet again.

Oh Barbara, I just saw this thread.  I am so sorry.

I also am late on this. I'm very sorry for the loss of your brother. Brothers are so special.