ALOK Needs Your Thoughts

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    ALOK Needs Your Thoughts

    So I just updated the other day that ALOK is living with her cousin Chris. Well, last night after some celebrating he went out on his dirt bike and at the end of road instead of turning... he didn't. He ran straight into the guardrail and was projected headlong into a tree. Right now he's in the hospital in a medically induced coma. They will not know until Tuesday about surgery and/or potential brain damage. All the boys in her family have really hard heads (and the doctor is amazed that they were even in a hospital).

    PLEASE keep ALOK and her family in your thoughts and prayers! I'll update as I find stuff out, she may be on later, I don't know.

    Also, ALOK's ex-fiance is making her life extra-stressful and talking about how bad his life is, so... maybe some "leave her alone" vibes would be appreciated as well.

     

    [If I never have to use this section again, it will be too soon!]

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    I'm so sorry to hear about her cousin.  Sending good thoughts for him and the whole family.   Leave ALOK alone vibes coming too. 

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     they are all in our prayers and thoughts

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    Will definitel lift up ALOK and her cousin Chris -- for sure. And thanks for posting -- this is a good place to land.

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    Good thoughts coming from FL!

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    Chris was just taken off the ventilator! He recognizes ALOK and his brother and is hoarsely whispering parts of sentences right now.

    Whatever you guys are doing, I think it's working -- so keep the good thoughts coming!

    They are still expecting tomorrow to be the worst, but they have yet to take new CTs today, they may not.

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    aDorkable

    Whatever you guys are doing, I think it's working -- so keep the good thoughts coming!

    That's what they're for!!!

    Good thoughts and prayers from me as well.  Hope tomorrow goes well.

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    Good vibes coming ALOK's way for her & her cousin.  Evil glares in her x's way.  Leave her alone!

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    ALOK's post from the Horse Forum earlier this evening:

     

    I just got access to a laptop. As aDorkable said, hard heads run in our family, which is good, since we've a tendency to lead with the head. Chris is three years and one week younger than me, we've been attached to each other since he was born.

    Chris decided he was going for a ride, and his buddy told him he wanted to go home, and Chris said he could go home, but he was going for a ride, so Brandon went with him, and now we're really glad Brandon did, because he would've wrecked with or without him, and it would've taken a long time before we went out to look for him. Brandon was stopped at a stop sign waiting for Chris, and Chris just didn't stop. He slowed down a lot, but didn't quite make it stopped before the guard rail, then he laid the bike down and slid under the rail.

    That was a really bad night. I nearly hit a lady cop who couldn't keep her mouth shut, a friend nearly went after an EMT for cursing at me, and another had issues with the state patrol after I left (they wouldn't let me ride with Chris, I'm not "close enough family";). The lady cop threatened to arrest me and I told her she could _____ing try it, and she backed off. Apparently the three of us have extremely bad tempers when we're upset (admittedly, mine's not that stable in the first place). Everyone else kept their cool and managed to keep us under control. I'm going to write complaint letters about the cop and the EMT, nobody should've been cursing or yelling at me, especially when I was standing 12 feet behind the ambulance, completely out of the way, not moving or saying a word.

    As far as my ex, I'm not even dealing with that nonsense right now, but thanks for the thoughts there.

    They just took the NG tube out, so he just has one IV giving him Tylenol right now and that's the only tube in him. He drank some water too, and kept that down (until they pulled the NG tube). This is such a difference from last night, when they told us he'd be kept unconscious for at least two weeks.

    When I saw Chris this morning he said, "Hey Em." Which is close enough to Emmy (what he's always called me) to keep me happy. One of his friends asked if he wanted to go fishing, and he said yeah... when asked which hole he wanted to go to he said "Anywhere but here." He's speaking more clearly now, but he's still asleep most of the time.

    Thanks again to all of you who are praying for us. I know we have all these prayers to thank for Christopher's recovery this far, and his continued recovery. Well, the prayers and his very hard head.

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    Just had a chance to comment.  Thoughts and prayers for continued improvement.  ((Hugs))

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    I missed this thread earlier too but I'm so glad that things are going better than expected. Continued good thoughts for more improvement every day.

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     No changes in his CT from admittance to today. This was supposed to be the worst for swelling. I'm hoping they're right.

     

    By the way, the ex contacted me and said he was giving ALOK her space, but praying for her, Chris, and her family.

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    Any news?

    Continued thoughts and prayers for ALOK.

    Wow, thanks for all your thoughts and prayers! They really have helped, so much! Chris was moved out of the ICU yesterday evening around 6:30, so we're up in the neuro-unit now - definitely a step in the right direction! The occupational therapist stopped by this morning, and said he wouldn't be needing any inpatient therapy, but some outpatient therapy for his memory and social skills are probably in his future. When I walked in this morning, he looked ten times better than he looked yesterday - today he can walk on his own (yesterday he could barely stand on his own), text his friends, and I showed him the buttons to move his bed up and down, so he's busy playing with those. We are all in awe, that Sunday morning we expected him to still be in a medically-induced coma for at least another week at this point, and today they're talking about sending him home in a couple of days. I know all the prayers have gotten us this far, and I know we'll get all the way back to normal soon. God really is amazing! Thanks to all of you again!
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     Great news - hope all the vibes keep him heading for a speedy recovery