need some good thoughts

• need some good thoughts agilebasenji Posted : 8/31/2007 12:38:22 PM I was hoping I could get some good thoughts as far a job stuff goes.  Strange things are going on at DH's job and I only work part time, but am thinking I need to do something else there too.  Just thinking about it puts me in a really bad blue funk.  [sm=sad.gif]  And I'm sure it's just a matter of getting through things, but it just seems so bleak right now. LIKE 11 REPLIES 486 VIEWS LAST POST ZBANDME Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• cakana Posted : 8/31/2007 2:53:35 PM I've been where you are and I know how stressful and depressing it can be. It's hard to trust that things will all work out, but ya know, somehow they always do, right?  I hope for something positive for both you and your DH soon [] 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• glenmar Posted : 8/31/2007 3:14:46 PM You've got them agile.   DH is in broadcasting and that tends to be about as stable as a teeter totter, so I certainly know the feeling.  If your gut tells you something is funky, then it probably is.  But, somehow, things always do work out.   Sending strong "stable financial circumstances" vibes your way.  And hugs as well. 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• pofi_pasquale Posted : 8/31/2007 4:50:26 PM Hoping the bleak gets brighter for you soon. 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• agilebasenji Posted : 9/1/2007 10:09:54 AM Thanks guys.  Keep em coming.  It just seems like we go through this every 3 years or so and I'm so sick of it!  I try to keep things in perspective - everyone is healthy, but I tend to get a worry in my head and dwell on it.  I think I have OCD leanings.      0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• gradyupmybutt Posted : 9/1/2007 1:12:41 PM Sending good, stable job vibes your way. 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• cakana Posted : 9/1/2007 2:51:25 PM but I tend to get a worry in my head and dwell on it. *sigh* me too [8|].  I think for me it comes from being a bit of a control freak with a huge dose of impatience.  So, I always want to "fix" things and I want to fix it now.  My DH was unemployed for 2 very loooonnnngggg years, and looking back, I don't know how I got thru it other than finally getting to the bursting at the seams with worry point and then turning to my spiritual side and letting it go. It was a constant cycle tho cause I'd forget that there wasn't much I had control over until my neck was so stiff, I thought my head would snap right off.  Try not to let it get to that point. Whatever works to calm you...practice it often (getting drunk doesn't count) [] 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• RidgebackGermansShep Posted : 9/1/2007 5:51:07 PM i'm thinking of ya! hope everything turns out for you 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• dyan Posted : 9/1/2007 7:36:59 PM Oh man,,,,hang in there agile....I haven't has that problem with  my DH..but I had it with myself...and I sure know that worry and stress feelings that can make you crazy. I am MISS WORRY!    Try to keep good thoughts going...and like was already said...things always do work out...its just that we don't believe it while its going on. Best wishes. 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• jessies_mom Posted : 9/1/2007 11:22:24 PM   I've been through this too; About 5 years ago, DH lost his job of 22 years and had to look for another job. Like Cathy, I turned to my spiritual side and put it in God's hands. Everything worked out and he found a job he likes better than his old one. I'm sending lots of good thoughts your way and hope everything works out. 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• janobonano Posted : 9/5/2007 11:39:31 AM I've been through it too. No fun. It will turnaround and get better! 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login
• ZBAndMe Posted : 9/16/2007 8:05:17 PM Things will look up for you. We all can relate to financial difficulties, I know I can! Don't let it run your life, just keep your head up and know that this will pass. I'm sending you good thoughts! 0 LIKE Like Share You have posted to a forum that requires a moderator to approve posts before they are publicly available. Hey, it's way more fun when you sign up or log in Connect With Connect With Sign Up Login