Prayers for my Mom

    • Gold Top Dog

    Prayers for my Mom

    Hello everyone,

    I wanted to ask prayers for my Mom. She is faced with making the difficult decision to have her dog of 17 years put down. Dixie has been declining over the past years, but the past one has been rather significant. She is partially deaf and blind, and has been having episodes of vomitting. We all know it is getting close, but it is a hard thing to have to do as many of you know.

    Just pray for my Mom that she will have the strength to do this. It is even harder with Mother's day this weekend. I forgot, and broached the subject of doing it this Saturday completely forgetting what Sunday is. Dixie is going to have to be sedated to get her to the vet, and that is going to require having someone home that is strong enough to get her in the car. She won't let anyone pick her up anymore, and sometimes she snaps at family members when we startle her and accidently hurt her.

    So prayers please, this is not going to be a good month.

    Thanks,
    Amy


    • Gold Top Dog
    My vet will euthanize at home, it is more costly but you could check if folks think this might make it easier. 
    • Gold Top Dog
    I asked about that today when I made an appointment for Jezebelle, but alas, we live to far out for a home visit.
    • Gold Top Dog
    Prayers for all of you Amy. It is a difficult decision, but somehow, you know. It's the after part that's so hard. They are at peace, but we live on with the pain.
    • Gold Top Dog
    Amy, I'm so sorry to hear what your mom is going through... knowing that the time is getting closer makes everything feel rushed.  Prayers going out to you and your family for strength and peace for Dixie. 
    • Gold Top Dog
    Thanks everyone. I know Mom has prayed that she would be able to go in her sleep here at home, but we are going to have to help her over the bridge. It is the only loving thing we can do for her, it is just so hard on Mom. Dixie has been Mom's shadow since we brought her home in January of 1992.

    I was given a Cocker Spaniel in 1990 and she quickly became the family dog. She was stolen in the fall of 1991, and in our search for Cara, we went to the Beaumont Humane Society. Even though Beaumont is an hour away, we were praying and hoping that we would find her (which we did, the people that found her after she escaped from the guy that stole her returned her to us even after they took her to the vet and had her groomed - very sweet people).  That day Mom saw Dixie and it was a magical connection for them. She looked at Mom, and you could just tell that she had claimed Mom for her own. Her owners had let her get pregnant, then dumped her at the shelter because they didn't want the puppies. She was about a year and a half old, and from the first moment we got her home, she has protected Mom from strangers (and even family members!) and snakes. Living in a rural area, people (men) have a tendency to have no regard for how uncomfortable a stranger makes a women feel home alone. Dixie wouldn't let them out of the car, and if they were stupid enough to get out and walk toward the house, they never set foot on the sidewalk. She never laid tooth one on anybody, but she made them think she would. We laugh about how my dad's sister would come over and be in the front yard talking to them with Dixie at their feet, but the moment she started for the back yard and Mom, she would get between my Aunt and Mom and not let her anywhere near her! She's kept Mom from stepping on snakes, and provided 15 years of love and laughter and care. She's goofy and silly, jumping about like a young puppy, but her body just won't let her do it more than once. She's a young girl in an old dog's body, and it is breaking my Mom's heart to have to let her go. I've seen a lot of pet/human connections in my life, experienced a few of my own, but the bond that formed that day in that shelter between Dixie and my Mom is one of the sweetest, most devoted heart connections I think I will ever see. I'll miss your thumpy butt and tail Miss Dixie.....(picture from last year, not the best, but I can't find any good ones on this computer).


    • Bronze
    In prayer..
     
    May your mom some day know that the life she afforded Dixie was reciprocated everyday when she was "protecting" your mom....in life, we should all be so lucky.
     
    Hugs to you...Coleen and the pndhounds.
    • Bronze
    eta.sorry
    double post
    • Gold Top Dog
    Sending strong vibes and comforting thoughts to your Mom as she faces this heartbreaking time.  The weeks preceding having to make that decision for our dog was by far the most difficult period of my adult life.  Regardless of what our heads tell us is the "right thing" or the "right time," our hearts simply cannot immediately cope with saying goodbye.  It's a slow and sad process, but hopefully your Mom will find comfort soon and she'll continue to experience her relationship with her special dog -- just in a different way. 
    • Gold Top Dog
    Prayers coming from here that when the time comes your mom will find the strength to help Dixie over the Bridge.