spiritdogs
Posted : 9/24/2009 9:13:29 AM
You now what....if you can't control your dog, then your dog is
controlling you and you are dealing with a dog that will hurt others if
you don't take control. Sometimes we need to take some chances to gain
that control. Some of us have dogs that for whatever reason may give
us a mouthing or two....that is the risk we take when we have a dog
with a certain personality or a history that needs some work. It may
mean that we need to mess around until we find a way to deal with our
dog ... or ... someone else (a behaviouralist) takes over, and they
deal with the dog.
The correct terminology is *behaviorist* and most behaviorists I know do not recommend grabbing a dog by the collar, for the reason I stated. You may have confidence that your own dog will not bite you, although I still don't see the point of a collar grab, when it's far more productive to give the dog no attention whatsoever for such pushy behavior (if he gets nothing for it, he'll eventually stop doing it because it doesn't work any more). But, those of us who work with unknown dogs that may decide to become aggressive are not dumb enough to reach over the head of a dog and grab its collar. Do that often enough, you will eventually get a bite.
The dog we are talking about does not
appear to be vicious or dangerously aggressive in any way, so if he
does anything, he will mouth....maybe even strongly mouth and the owner
may even feel some teeth....but it does not appear that he will bite.
If he bites....then we are in a different category and a more serious
approach is required and the owner needs to know this.
It's seldom productive to meet aggression with aggression, and usually only makes the situation much worse. The object is always to avoid having the dog bite (what they practice, they learn to repeat).
I
don't advocate getting bitten by our dogs, but I do believe that "a
positive, close and loving relationship" means that our dogs will
choose NOT to bite during correction.
Since most dogs bite out of fear (about 80%), rather than overt aggression, why would you add a "correction" that only serves to increase anxiety, thus adding fuel to the fire???
I do not condone punishment of
any sort, but i do feel free to take control of my dog by grabbing him
and holding him steady if he is being too goofy.
Feel free - it's your dog (poor thing). But, if you did that to my dog, you'd have to deal with me.
If he bites me then, I
have a more serious problem on my hands and I would prefer he bites me
than someone else. So far, I have no bites.
What the heck does that prove? There's always a first time. Good thing you have a soft dog.