Ruth
Posted : 8/6/2006 2:27:22 PM
To the OP:
Just in case he's not a troll . . .
1. Never hit your dog. It won't help you train him. It will only make him fear you, which will interfere with a positive training relationship. And it will teach him that aggression is OK. I think you already are seeing that. He views you as a scary threat and he feels like the only way to deal with you is to growl, hoping you'll back off and leave him alone. If you don't, he may escalate to snapping and biting. This is the opposite of what you want. You need to re-think your whole approach. Do some reading on this site about positive training methods, clicker training, etc. Your first challenge is going to be rehabilitating your relationship with the dog and teaching him he can trust you. Take it slow and don't push him. Don't be aggressive, don't be violent. Be a calm, gentle leader.
2. In the meantime, you need to find ways to control your dog. If he is running away toward other dogs, confine him in your yard or keep him on leash. If you don't have him under your voice control (and you clearly don't) then he should never be in a position to run away or attack another dog. You must keep him (and others) safe while you teach him what you want him to do. If you can't control him on a regular leash, use a anti-pull harness or a head halter to help you.
3. If your dog does run off, and you yell at him or hit him when he returns, what is he learning? Stay away from Mom, she is dangerous and scary. This will only encourage him to run away, and make him scared to come back. It is 100% the wrong approach. Start teaching him in a positive way -- praise him and give him treats when he comes to you. Make him happy and excited to return to you, so he'll be eager to do it next time. Dogs will do what gets them the best outcome. Find what your dog loves (meat, toys, fetching, whatever) and reward him with it when he does what you want him to do.
4. I think you need some basic education about dogs. I would recommend reaading The Culture Clash by Jean Donaldson. Also, How To Be the Leader of Your Pack and Have Your Dog Love You For It by Patricia McConnell.