cat0
Posted : 4/9/2008 6:03:37 PM
Wow, look at all the posts I've missed. I appreciate every single suggestion because sometimes it's a combination of them that gets us by.
This morning I intended only walk surrounding blocks, not directly past dogs, but I couldn't believe my luck. Directly across the street from a pair of the *offending* gated dogs were several people on the lawn, a lawn mower, the family dog (who Barney has met), the neighbors sprinkler system was running, and Barney knows that a cat lives next door. He was already distracted so we walked to their house even though the 2 gated dogs started barking on the other side of the street. A couple of times he glanced over at the barking dogs but the rest of the action drew him back... he was just having a good old time. A few times we did "look at me", or sit, just to get him to focus on me. We hung out for about 10 minutes and the 2 barking dogs finally quit. So he never got upset and left completely calm.
I can't always get him to pay attention to ME, but distracting him I'm sure is the key here, now. I couldn't have planned this if I tried. And I seriously don't think I'll be this lucky again, so back to square one.
AuroraLove
Don't talk in soothing tones or try and talk him out of it. Soothing tones like "oh come on buddy or pay them no mind" can be misinterpreted for praise for his actions.....proof is fear/aggression is the way to go.
Thanks for throwing that in. I've tried to only "change the subject" and not even have a discussion about the dogs. I don't ever hold the leash tight, I think it makes for a tense situation anyway.
We don't "sit" directly in front of the houses, I only use sits to try to regain a bit of control once he starts showing anxiety. We never even walk directly in front of these houses anymore. I'm not sending any tensing signals to him, I think he is anticipating what he knows is down the street. He's got an incredible memory and never forgets who lives where, even though I do.
Honestly, I've got a lot more experience with horses in this type of situation: I would be getting as close as I safely could, then just camp out, ignore the situation, bring a book to read, bring along a friend to talk to, for as long as it took for the horse to become SO bored, hours, days... then do it a little longer. But that is desensitizing. Does that work the same with dogs?