corvus
Posted : 1/18/2008 6:55:05 PM
corgipower
I am glad that you are able to raise your animals without corrections. If mine weren't so obnoxious and rude, I would also. If mine weren't so confident and hard, I would also. There are huge differences between a wild animal and a dog. Dogs have been selectively bred for a long time to live with humans as domesticated animals. They are even more domesticated than a cat.
But my point is, just because they're super domesticated, why should we assume they need something that would turn other animals against us? Are dogs not animals? Domestic cats don't think much of corrections, either. My domestic rabbit came to me wilder than my hare because she had been punished. I just am having trouble understanding the logic that says dogs are somehow different to all other animals I've ever lived or worked with and therefore sometimes need something that would convince all other animals I've ever lived or worked with that I'm not to be trusted.
I always ensure that I have my dog's trust before giving him any corrections. By then, I have a pretty solid understanding of his drives, his confidence, his temperament, his hardness. All of that enables me to decide if he can handle a correction, and how much of a correction he can handle. It also means that he won't hold it against me when he receives a correction, which is then followed up with a reward. Pretty much how your hare now has the trust in you that if you make a mistake, she isn't upset by it.
Well, I had Penny's trust before giving corrections, too. It just made it harder for me to see the damage that was occurring. In fact, I didn't see it until many yeas later. I'm not talking about being majorly shutdown or frightened of me. I've done a lot since then to improve our relationship and my dog thoroughly adores me and lets me do just about anything to her, much more than my hare would ever let me do to him. However, my relationship with the hare is still better. Deeper trust, better understanding, and even though there's far less affection and he's obviously less comfortable around people in general than my dog is, the affection he gives me is far more meaningful and it's more often for my benefit than his. I am not yet convinced I've ever seen my dog seek affection for my benefit rather than her own.
I don't think you could screw Penny up if you tried, no matter what training methods you used. But it still stands that I see in her very, very subtle damage from traditional training. I probably did it wrong, but it makes no difference because I was under professional tuition at the time and doing positive training wrong is, as has already been said, less damaging than doing corrections wrong.
We've had our share of hard dogs in our family as well. It wasn't until they came along that we discovered traditional training doesn't work so hot sometimes and positive training works much better. Hell would freeze over before Pyry - the smart, confident, stubborn little trouble-maker he is - would learn that a correction was just a communication and one that he should heed. The only way to get Pyry to behave the way you want him to is make sure the choice to behave the way you want him to is in his best interests.