Some background info: Buddy is 18mo., 16lbs. boston/corgi mix. I've had him since he was 9wks and we have been through three different obedience classes. He has a few commands and tricks that he obeys immediately - sit, down, off, leave it, paw, roll over. On to the problems:
Buddy is leash reactive. He is not aggressive on the leash, but he does get very, very excited with dogs and humans. Off leash, at a dog park, he is the best with other dogs. He reads their body language so well. I'm so proud of him. With humans at the dog park, he sometimes ignores them, sometimes approaches to be petted, rarely jumps on them. I have not done a great deal of training with him on the reactiveness. I do use a gentle leader on long walks and am using distance as a temp. solution. If we are walking on the sidewalk and someone is approaching us with or without a dog, I will step off the sidewalk and either continue walking in the street or put Buddy into a sit and give him the leave it command. If it is someone that he doesn't know, he will just sit and watch the person (great!), but if he does know them, he jumps against the leash, whines, barks, or cries at that person. People have stopped approaching him, which I am thankful for because he is not being rewarded for his crazy behavior. BUT, this isn't the problem that I want help with.
Buddy hardly ever jumps on me and he is a jumper. From a stand still he can probably jump 3 to 4 feet straight up in the air. You know how kids always want to walk on concrete walls, like those for a street planter. That is what I do with Buddy. He likes to jump up onto those walls and walk along. :) When I come home at night, no jumping on me. I worked with him early on so that he is calm when I come home. BUT, when anyone comes into my home or we go to another home, he jumps like CRAZY. I was at my parents and my dad came home and he was jumping up (clearing his waistband) and sometimes he was nipping at his clothes! Not cool. My parents are very good with him and reprimand him, but it doesn't deter him.
Also, Buddy has never been happy with anyone physically postitioning him or handling him. As a pup, I handled his paws, ears, opened his mouth, but he never really accepted this. He tolerates me handling his paws (I do cut his nails), looking in his ears, etc. He likes to be on my lap for a neck, back, chest scratch, but if I try to end it or position him differently, he will frequently put his mouth on my hand, wrist, arm. Never bites down, but he is certainly communicating something to me.
Am I dealing with adolescence here? Has he hit that age where he starts to not listen to me? Is there a quick, easy behavior we can exhibit to deter the jumping? Something I can easily explain to visitors? What about the nipping (me and clothes)? Should I go back to saying "ow" and then ignoring him? That is how I dealt with puppy mouthing. Do I not allow him on my lap for awhile?
If you read this far, thank you!
Sue