I just got my 7 week old Dane this past Saturday and she has been an absolute dream. The 1st night she didn’t eat or drink, but by Sunday she was eating and drinking everything in sight. I was so proud oh her because by Sunday afternoon, she was standing by my front door to let me know she needed to go potty. She hadn’t really even had an accident all Saturday and Sunday. Both those 1st nights, I let her sleep in bed with me, just do she could get comfortable with my home and myself (I live alone in a 1600 SQFT town home.) but intended to start crate training her Monday night.
Everything went fine in the 1st 2 days when she slept in bed with me, but it was time to start early. She took to her crate well, getting in by herself on a regular basis, but i never closed the door. Monday, I took her to work with me because I didn’t want to leave her alone so early. Last night when we got home, it was pouring down rain and she refused to go potty outside despite standing in the rain with her for 10 minutes. So we went back inside and I dried her off.
After a long day of attention from new people, she was tired and went straight to her crate to lie down. I saw this as an opportunity to close the door because I figured she wouldn’t potty in the crate. I closed the door while she was asleep and everything was fine until she woke up. When she did wake up, she cried and threw a tantrum like a Tasmanian devil for 15 minutes before violently defecating all over the crate. At this point, I took her out and spent the next 30-45 minutes cleaning up the crate and bathing her.
I then went to a routine of watching TV, eating dinner, etc, with her out of the crate. Around 11pm, it was time to go to bed, and she was tired. Once again she went inside her crate on her own so I closed the gate and made myself invisible to her. She wailed incessantly for 2 hours before I couldn’t take it anymore and decided to read up more on the matter with her still in the crate. I learned that a lot of write-ups recommended that I startle her with a noise. Her crate is downstairs on the hardwood doors and the bedrooms are upstairs and look down onto the living room. Her crate is under the stairs. What i did was drop a soft paperback book on the floor in front of her crate. This stopped her crying for about 15 minutes before i had to drop another book.
Over the next 3 hours, the interval which she was quiet eventually dropped to the point that she was unfazed by it and constantly crying. I went through 30 books and from small paperback book to hardback textbooks. I ran out of books and had to go downstairs and retrieve them until it didn’t do any good. by 4 am, she had been wailing at the top of her lungs for 5 hours straight. I let her out to potty, which she did, and she proceeded to go into her crate on her own volition. This time, I brought several blankets and pillows downstairs and planned to sleep in front of the crate with the door shut. I even put my fingers in the crate, but this did no good after an hour. Even though I’m not supposed to, i finally gave in, as I HAD TO have some sleep. Please don’t scold me for this, but I had been listening to her for 6 hours screaming bloody murder, and there was no way around it, and no place to effectively retreat from it except to leave and check into a hotel.
This morning, i decided not to take her to work and instead crate her until I returned for lunch. I put her in around 8am, and returned from lunch at noon. When I walked up to my front door SHE WAS STILL WAILING WITH NO APPARENT LOSS OF ENERGY!!!! When i went to her crate, I found that she had defecated lightly in her crate. I took her out, cleaned up and took her to the office with me. She is now under my desk, sleeping soundly as I type this. Please help or advise me, as I have read everything I can find about crate training and haven’t found any other suggestions... Please help.... what should I do tonight? I’m so tired… I haven’t slept…