I had a training session with Pocket today that didn't go so well- I'm a little disappointed (with myself, more than anything) and upset.
We were doing our first session on the agility/confidence course out in a paddock (all previous training sessions were done inside a garage), and for the first half hour or so Pocket was doing pretty well, until 2 things happened. First of all, my trainers dogs who were kept outside kept barking for ages, which rattled her a little. Then she spotted a guy a few paddocks over doing some weed-spraying, and once she saw him she wouldn't focus or do anything else other than watch him.
I had a lot of trouble getting her attention (she didn't even turn her head when I ran away), and I eventually got her to come near me. My trainer asked me to put her in a "down", and she wouldn't, so I tried something a bit easier ("paw"
;) and she wouldn't do that either. While we were discussing what was happening, Pocket was sitting, staring at this guy and I could tell she was freaking out. She was lip-licking, had her tail between her legs, and had huge stress drools.
My trainer said that I shouldn't keep asking her to do stuff and letting her ignore me, and that what I should do if she doesn't obey first time is to bark "NO!" (to tell her that this was unacceptable), and then repeat the command, and if she didn't obey the second time to exclude her (by putting her in her crate, if possible).
I didn't really agree with this because a) I absolutely HATE raising my voice and b) I'm certain there's a better way to handle this. The trainer said that she was ignoring me and focussing on the guy because she didn't trust that I would protect her (i.e. I'm not alpha enough) and that I had to basically tell her to get over it and do what I wanted her to do.
Anyway, I would really appreciate any thoughts/opinions on my trainer's suggestion, and any other possible methods for dealing with this? Thanks in advance!