corvus
Posted : 8/28/2007 6:54:42 PM
It occurs to me that this issue is a whole lot of misunderstanding and people's personal feelings and stances getting tangled up in the argument. I learnt the most about animals when I didn't think I knew anything about them and started from scratch. Sometimes I think we should pretend we know nothing about dogs and rebuild our knowledge base from scratch. I am actually in the process of doing that, and hoping the dogs I interact with can teach me better than the people who think they know about dogs can. [

] That said, scientific findings are very important additions to the knowledge base, because science is driven by a desire for the truth. There's always disagreeing people trying to prove each other wrong, and that's how we work out what's really happening, like houndlove said.
I'd just like to say that I don't see a lot of CM bashing here. The people that often speak out about CM speak out about any training methods they think does more harm than good. There are people that have done the same thing regarding hands off methods. I think everyone here wants what is best for their dogs and we're all just trying things out and coming to different conclusions through our experiences. There's nothing wrong with that, and I don't see anyone trying to make people agree with everything they say.
I also don't see anyone denying that pop psychology methods can and do work. It's not a matter of whether they work or not, it's a matter of what works best. Maybe there is no right and wrong way to go about it, but there are certainly good and better ways. It depends on your dog and your situation which way will be better. I still think CM presents the most dangerous tools in the toolbox and I don't think a little disclaimer at the start of every show absolves him of responsibility.
From my perspective, I don't care so much about what works. I care about what feels right for me. I'm a gentle person and I don't like aggression or posturing or force. Neither my hare nor my rabbit will stand for force. It destroys trust and if I want to get anywhere with them, I've got to coax and manipulate, often without touching at all. They have to choose where to go and how to behave. It's my job to encourage them to choose something that aligns with what I want. I could force them, and I've tried once or twice. It might get me immediate results, but in the long term, it only damages my relationship with them, and it's pretty heart-wrenching to have your animals jumpy and nervous around you. Since I learnt how to deal with the buns without touching, I found I was doing the same thing with my dog and she was responding really well. She's so easy any method will work on her, but if that's the case, why would I use force when I don't have to? I'm only disappointed this question didn't occur to me earlier. The way I see it, even if the force-free way is harder and takes longer, I'm happier putting in the extra work and my bond with my animals deepens. Before I quit using force, I thought Penny was doing just fine. It was only when I got Kit and was forced to forget about force that I realised my relationship with Penny was sorely lacking and I don't think I will ever make up the lost ground.
I believe in the airy fairy unsubstantiated things in life because that's the kind of person I am. But that doesn't mean I apply them to every corner of my life. I'm also a scientist, and often I find science helps me to decide what airy fairy things are worth my attention and what I dismiss without trying it.
Yes, there is room for both in the world. The only thing I don't really understand is why use force when you don't have to? If someone had told me what my relationship with my animals could be like without force, I would have stopped using it that day. I've only got a dog, a hare, and a rabbit to go off, but my experience has been so profound that I'll be avoiding force for the rest of my life, regardless of what pop psychology or scientific methods pop up. I guess it's no different to those that have had profound experiences with using force. They'll probably never want to change either. For my part, I look for methods from either camp that don't use force, but I'm wary of pop culture in any shape or form because it gains momentum so fast and I don't want to commit to anything until I've puzzled it out in my mind and tested it cautiously myself. I'm not against CM or traditional training methods per se. I'm against using force, and that includes positioning my dog physically and using a leash to guide her. My voice works perfectly well.