kennel_keeper
Posted : 11/6/2006 9:03:57 PM
Anne, that doesn't surprise me one bit. Most people don't want to be told that they are making the wrong decision. They have it in their mind what they want and there's no convincing them otherwise. Heck, some probably don't even realize the real motivator, so it's easy for them to deny their intentions/motivations.
I deal with alot of people and their dogs on a daily basis. Most have NO training and are completely impossible to groom (I'm sure you know all about this [

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Now, I don't mean any offense to those here that have the above mentioned breeds, it's just been my experience. I honestly feel that most of the members are far more informed pet owners than most of the JQP that I deal with daily.
It would be a great thing to see trainers come together, regardless of their differences, as most are after the same things. To achieve a sound and happy compainion with a healthy home life with owners that understand WHY dogs act like dogs! I know that will probably never happen as the differences are TOO broad, but it would be wonderful [

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