mudpuppy
Posted : 4/27/2007 1:16:41 PM
no, do not pet him while he is eating. That is very rude to dogs. And definitely don't let the baby touch him while he is eating-- you'll need to teach your child to leave eating dogs alone. Your goal isn't to get him comfortable enough to be petted while eating, but to have him comfortable with you walking past him while he is eating. Don't take the growling personally, don't get angry, he is acting like a normal dog who just needs to be taught how to act like a dog who lives with humans.
Try this for a couple of days: give him

art of his daily portion of his food in the bowl. Ask him to sit. If he does, give him the bowl to eat out of, and briskly move away-- make sure no one else is in the room. When he's done eating his small portion, call him away from the empty bowl, give a treat for compliance. Take bowl, re-fill, and repeat. This is a basic NILIF protocol-- if he wants food, he has to comply with your wishes.
Do you have a very quiet place to feed him in? a crate, a corner of a back room? dogs who exhibit food guarding should for everyone's safety not be fed in high-traffic areas.
How skinny is he? young danes always look incredibly skinny (unless being overfed) because they have no body fat and barely any fur. Visible ribs, visible vertebrae, visible hip bones are common. If he seems energetic and has a glow to his coat it's ok.