badrap
Posted : 5/22/2007 11:28:44 PM
[&o] DPU i don't have a good answer to this question. i wrestle with it every single day. are there limits to social responsibility? i'm not sure. hypothetical questions become very difficult to answer and very quickly.
let's assume that i am ME, and let's assume that i still have my dogs. probably, at some point, these people would see me, and a conversation would happen. people with the same breed often do this. at this point, i might be able to address the issue of training and excersise, and i probably would.
let me give you a NON-hypothetical example. in the town where i used to live before dallas, there was a place a few houses down that had 3 pit bulls tied up in the yard. every single day, i would walk by that house. every single day, my heart broke for those dogs. i never so much as saw anyone LOOK at them. somehow, though, they were fairly docile. i wouldn't have approached the yard, but they never bothered my dogs and i while we walked by. then, one day, a young male from the house saw me walking and ran up to ask about the prong collar. i explained its use and how to use it. he didn't care. he just wanted to know where i got it. i lied and said it was custom made, because i knew what was about to happen. sure enough, a week or so later, all three dogs had prong collars on them. these were dogs tied to STAKES. absolutely, completely, indefensibly inappropriate. what to do? i was afraid to go in their yard. i called animal control and reported it, and i left a note in their mailbox that those were training collars and were being put to a totally inappropriate use. i didn't know what else to do.
i think that's how many of us feel when confronted with situations involving dogs that make us sad, or that we don't like. i think we are still struggling to find the "best" way to handle it.
DPU, i don't know what that "Best" way was. i wanted to take all those dogs away and raise them right. that, however, is far beyond my physical and financial capabilities.
we all want to do what's right. sadly, there are limits to what we CAN do.