Deb
Posted : 8/19/2006 1:02:51 PM
First, I understand that you are rattled--dogfights are scary. To answer some of your questions:
1. The idea that you "can't have this liability in your home" is riling people up because it sounds like you got a pit bull without doing any research when you say this. Pits, like all terriers but more so, tend toward dog aggression. You probably won't be able to go to a dog park safely with your pit, and I would never take a pit mix of mine to a dog park, even if it was over 2 years old and never showed any aggression. The tendency is there, and I would prefer dog-dog interactions that are easier to control, with dogs I know. This is not to say that pits are bad dogs--they are truly fantastic dogs and have an extremely low tendency toward human aggression.
2. Dog parks are not particularly safe places because you are at the mercy of all kinds of ignorances. Boxer pups do have a hard time learning how to play, and puppies get a lot of lumps in general. A lot of pit owners don't research the breed first and are very surprised the first time their dog decides to fight another dog. There is an assumption of risk when a person enters a dog run. You are probably not legally responsible for this reason, but did the right thing by giving your contact info and offering to pay the bill. You should pay it, apologize, and tell the owner that you are taking this seriously and are not going to dog runs anymore.
You did the right thing.
3. It doesn't sound like that big a deal in the big scheme of things. An ear bite is not going to require a shunt or anything, and most of the tissue in an ear is expendable (hence cropping of ears). The vet bill should be under $200.
If it makes you feel any better, I paid over $3000 in other people's vet and medical bills when I did have a truly aggressive dog (not a pit, but a rescue) that was not managable (she was a liability that I did have to put down--not like your dog). I empathize with you, but the dog was just acting like a dog, and it's your job not to continue the conflict with the other human. Be a good person, don't let the conflict between your dog and the pup turn into a conflict between owners, and you will be fine.
Just keep repeating to yourself that you didn't bite anybody, and you'll feel better after you write that check.