So, I have this relatively new dog. She's a 4-year-old Shar Pei, and we adopted her from a local breed-specific rescue. Nobody knows her history, beyond the fact that she was abandoned at the vet after an apartment fire. She loves people and other dogs, but is scared of cats. We were told that she didn't like the vet, and she especially didn't like her paws being touched by anyone.
But, we had to take her to the vet for a check-up and general health screening. She didn't like that at all... She got a little snippy, so my husband and I were instructed to put a cloth muzzle on her (which of course, she also didn't like). She was still snippy, foamy-mouthed, and she growled...excessively. All the vet did was touch her stomach, which I've made a point to do as often as possible. At home, she still doesn't like to be touched much, but she'll let me because she knows who her pack leader is.
I just don't know what to do though. She has skin problems, most likely an ear infection, and she also probably got roundworm from my kitten. We can't help her unless the vet can take a look at her, but she just won't have it...what can I do to help ease her nervousness and aggression so we can make her healthy?