sandra johnson
Posted : 2/4/2007 7:20:55 AM
I have to agree with Chuffy on this one.The problem is not your dog, it's the way you are
reacting to your dog's behaviors. If your dog hides when you come home, you have either yelled at it for chewing something of yours or someone
before you has. You need to be calm but assertive around your dog, not freaking out because your dog has chewed your shoes or jumped up on the dining room table. I don't mean to sound harsh here but honestly, all of this can be prevented and it appears that you aren't doing
your part. Your dog is more than likely experiencing seperation anxiety, therefore, it's doing it's own "freaking out" when you leave. You can train your dog to overcome it's seperation anxiety. Start by sending her to her crate (be sure to treat for this so she learns that being in the crate is a good thing). Put on your shoes, coat, keys, purse, whatever you take with you normally. Your dog is likely to start whining or barking but just ignore her. Don't make a fuss AT ALL! This only worsens the anxiety. Go out the door and lock it. Wait for a few minutes then come back in, ignoring your dog. Go about your business for a few minutes then leave again. This time, stay outside for a few minutes longer. Each time you go out, stay longer and longer. This will show your dog that you are coming back and the dog will get the idea that it isn't being abandoned. The more you fuss over a dog when you leave
and return, the more anxious your dog becomes.This dog lost it's previous home and it will lose it's current home if you don't act responsibly. Crate your dog to protect your dog, to protect your belongings. Dogs like being crated regardless of what many people think. I'm not telling you to keep your dog in a crate 24/7, I'm saying to crate your dog before you leave your house (give your dog a treat for going in
and a Kong filled with yummy treats or a chewie). Crate your dog at night when you go to bed or at least put it's bed next to yours. I never advise my clients to allow dogs on furniture especially if the dog is dominant but that is their choice.Dog 'proof' your home just as you would for a toddler or small child. Dogs don't know the difference between a chewie and your expensive shoes. Learn to read your dog's body language. Your dog 'talks' to you by giving you signals and this is important especially because you don't really know your dog right now. Don't and I repeat DON'T use angry tones with your dog NO MATTER WHAT the dog does!! Talk to your dog in a normal tone and don't correct your dog if the dog doesn't know what it's being correct
for. Once your dog is obedience trained and has proofed commands 100%, only then can you correct the dog. Telling the dog "NO" before you teach it anything is useless. You are only working yourself up into frustration and creating a fearful, anxiety riddled dog.