Helping a dog to chill out?

    • Gold Top Dog

    Helping a dog to chill out?

    This is not really a "problem", but I'm just curious.  Kenya is the type of dog where it's all or nothing.  She's either totally laid back and sleeping, or she's all hyped up and ready to roll.  It's not a nervous anxious thing, just a lot of excitement.  I think she's a high strung dog, something I cannot and do not intend to change.  For example, when I come home, I hear the dogs bark.  That's fine with me, my neighbors haven't complained and I like that they recognize someone coming to the house.  The difference is that Coke barks a few times and when I enter he backs up and wags his tail very excitedly, but Kenya is so hyped up she's literally jumping 6 feet in the air straight up, knocking her paws on the slider door or the windows as I walk along the driveway, and when I come in she's spinning in circles or jumping all around me (I've taught her not to jump ON me, but I guess the jumping on me was not the real issue, it's the overall excitement).  I'm not sure that she's any more excited than Coke is, but she just tears around the house for several minutes.  Again, I don't call it a real "problem" because she is NOT mouthy and is not barking at me or jumping on me.  But, like today when I came home at lunch, when I let the dogs out the back door she took off so fast she literally ripped a section of carpet off the porch floor.  There's no middle ground for her.  Coke is excited too, but he walks out on the porch, waits for the door to open, trots outside and THEN runs around.  It doesn't even matter how long I'm gone.  This morning I walked out the door but forgot something so I went back inside and already she was jumping up and throwing her body against the sliding door.

    Another way this manifests itself is going up and down stairs.  Our house is very small and is a weird double split level, so we are going up and down stairs every few minutes.  Coke...he just goes up and down the stairs like norma.  Kenya...she will come from the other end of the room and bowl me over to get up the stairs if she thinks that's where I'm going.  Many times she's slipped and falling, twisting her legs or slamming her own head into the wall.  I don't really mind if she follows me around, but this 0-100 way of doing things could be dangerous for her.  It's like she goes from a deep slumber to "OMG MOM IS GOING UP THE STAIRS!" in half a second. MOST of the time she is calm and relaxed in the house, either sleeping, chewing bones, or playing with Coke, it's the times when I come home or when I am up and moving around that she gets spastic on me.  I EXPECT dogs to be excited when we come home, but one of these days she's going to slam through the glass and be injured or worse.

    I guess I'm open to suggestions on just helping her CHILL OUT more in the house when I am moving around.  It's kind of hard to explain.  Coke does it perfectly.  Yes he follows me around and gets very excited when we come home, but he's not throwing himself against glass doors, ripping curtains off the wall, tearing up the carpet excited.  I'm sure crating them would solve the problem but I'd hate to have to crate them when I leave just for that.  When I am gone, they are fine.  I can tell where they sleep by all the drool and hair that's there when I get back.

    Some of the things I am going to try are.... When I come home I walk in and ignore Kenya b/c she's going ballistic, I give Coke all the attention.  If she doesn't get the point, then I simply send her to a crate.  I shut the door.  When she calms down (and STAYS calm, as in, not being calm but then starting to thrash as I reach for the door), I open the crate door.  Now if I simply release her at this point, she still TEARS out into the yard literally ripping carpet in her wake, so I reach in and LEASH her, and then we sloooowly and calmly walk out the door (I say "easy.....eeeeasy...", then I kneel down and stroke her, speak sloooowly and calmly for a few seconds, and then let her go.  She gets affection for being calm and she sees that I am not rushing.  Once she's out in the yard, I don't care how wild she is.  Coke has figured this out, he knows that we go out, he waits to get clipped, and then when I give him a little spank on the butt and say "OK!" he runs off.  I'm also working on using my arms to give cues that I need more personal space (seriously all I'm asking for is six inches! I'm not sending her to another part of the room).  A few times today as we've gone up the stairs I hold her collar and go with her slooooowly.  Any other things to try?

    Again, this is not a complaint or an "issue" or whatever, I'm looking into this more for her own safety than anything.  Today she was so hyper she ended up slipping and walked with a limp for a while.

    • Gold Top Dog

    You could let her come spend a week with Max. Big Smile He's chilled out 24/7 unless there's a squirrel running across the top of the fence.

    Joyce

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    Same with Coke!  But he doesn't seem to rub off on her...

    I know she is a high strung dog, but I just want to make sure she's not going to injure herself.  I guess this is a more recent thing since the dogs are no longer crated at all while I'm gone and I don't want to resort to crating them again just for this.

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     Kenya sounds a lot like Kirby.  He is super velcro and there have been some times he has gone crashing into a wall trying to rush where he thinks I'm going.  What I have done however to slow him down, is not do what he thinks I'm going to do.  Perhaps it is my sense of humor, but when he goes rushing off one way, so sure he knows exactly where I am headed, I instead will hop back the other way and hide behind the wall or piece of furniture, and see how long it takes his little butt to figure out I'm not coming.  Usually I'm also giggling the entire time... yep I'm a cruel doggy owner like that.  Besides giving me a good laugh however, doing this has left him more attentive and slowed him down.  Rather than bolting ahead, he will jog and pause to see if I'm coming with him, or follow behind or next to me.

     He was also very excitable in greetings when I initally got him.  What I did however is work toward complete calmness before I would aknowledge him.  I also did this in part because he was verging on SA that had popped up with the inital stress of leaving his breeder's and the rest of his pack mates behind to come live with me.  When I initally worked on his greetings it was from his crate since at the time I was crating him when not supervised.  First thing is I would come in and completely ignore him till he was completely calm.  This meant no eye contact, words, or anything.  Instead I would usually go to my desk and fiddle with my laptop till he was sitting and in a more relaxed state. 

    Then I would approach the crate.  I would only open the door if he maintained a low key state.  He would also be expected to wait till I gave him the release command after opening the door.  Everything was very low key, and as soon as he was out I would stand.  I would ignore any over excited greatings.  Jumping up would be met with crossed arms in a turned back.  Equally over excited antics would cause me to look away in disintrest.  Only when he was standing or sitting more relaxed would I truly aknowledge him with a pat or two.  I kept this also very low key in the begining.  Intially I was trying to show him that me coming home was not that exciting or big of a deal and overtime he learned the fastest way to get my attention was to politely approach me in a low key manner.

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    Can you toss treats down at her without it causing a problem with Coke? So she learns that calmly by your side gets rewards and tearing off like a bat out of heck gets her nothing.

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    3girls

    Can you toss treats down at her without it causing a problem with Coke? So she learns that calmly by your side gets rewards and tearing off like a bat out of heck gets her nothing.

     

    The main problem is that I'm outside the house.  She is already jumping around before I even shut the car door.  Hence, I have no control to correct or redirect.  She will bark and/or spin excitedly when others come over, but not nearly to the extent that she does it with me.  I'm really hoping methods like totally ignoring her will eventually work because really the only ammo I have is my own attention and affection.

    It's funny, b/c she's not at all SA.  She doesn't give a crap if I leave and they are perfectly well behaved when I am gone.  At dog shows and other events I can crate her, tether her, or leave her with a friend and she'll just lie down.  Like it's almost better when I'm totally gone.  When I'm coming home, or moving around in the home, that is when she is running after me or pacing around.  She'll do it no matter how much exercise she just got.