brookcove
Posted : 5/27/2008 11:15:18 PM
Always rule out medical problems first. If that reveals nothing out of the ordinary, then it's time to consider that your dog is starting to make some decisions about what the rules are.
One of the things that toy dogs try to control is the timing of being handled. First, make sure everyone who will handle your dog, knows the way he likes to be picked up and held. Every dog is a little different in what they are comfortable with. Think of how he reacts to various ways you pick him up and hold him - there will be a way that he seems to associate most with safety and security.
Next, make sure you are setting the rules. NILIF for little dogs means that you decide when your dog is picked up, and when he leaves your lap. Do not ever let him either jump up or climb down, but rather pick him up and put him down. For safety reasons, it's better that way anyway.
You may have a surprise the first time he tries to jump off your lap, and you say "No." Hold him gently until he relaxes and will stay put without your holding him, then tell him he's a good boy and immediately put him down. If he chooses to start a battle with you, gently and calmly take him to his crate and put him in a time out. About three minutes is long enough. Repeat the next time you hold him in your lap.
Until you've worked all this out, I wouldn't let your roommates handle him. It won't take more than a couple days to get your own pattern settled. Then inform your roomates of the new rules.
On top of this, consider taking a tricks training course with him. When you take away freedom, you have to offer a place in your life in return. When this sort of behavior emerges at this age, it's often traceable to the boredom of a clever dog who's really seeking nothing more than a bit more of an active role in your life. If you won't give him some work to do, he'll make some up, including this game of "I'm thinking of a rule, and if you guess the rule wrong, I'll bite you."