Ben will happily go into his crate to sleep, and seems to like his little nest in there. When he wakes up, be it during the day or night, I take him out to do his business, and if at night, put him back in with a minimum of fuss so he will go back to sleep.
Here's my question - I read everywhere that he needs to learn to be in the crate anytime I can't supervise him (like when I am taking a shower, mopping the floors etc etc). But the thing is, he doesn't yet like being in there when he is awake, even if he can see me. I make sure he is "empty" before putting him in there, and stay within sight and talk to him, but he still whines like crazy. If I absolutely know that he doesn't need to potty, how long do I leave him to cry? I don't let him out while he is still whining, but I do go and calm him down from outside the crate before opening the door. Should I just be leaving him in there and hoping that the whining will get better? He looks at me with such sad eyes when I leave him in there when he's awake, and truth be told it does make me feel guilty. I assume that since he will sleep happily in there he doesn't have bad associations with his crate, and he doesn't whine when he wakes up, but I do generally get to him quite quickly so that I can take him outside.
Do I just wait it out? Am I expecting too much too soon? Ben has been with me for 8 days and we've had the crate for 5. I make a lot of time to play with him and socialise him, but frankly, we do need to eventually get to the point where I can leave him on his own in there for a few minutes to shower or whatever.
Thanks for any advice anyone can share.
Kate