Xeph
Posted : 4/26/2007 1:39:36 PM
Is your screen name a reference to Williams College?
No xD My screen name is the shortened version of an RP dragon character I use, named Xepherya. Most people can't pronounce Xepherya, so I go by Xeph
I also noticed that the handlers seemed very edgy to begin with, as if they were really amped up or nervous.
Many are...especially when they're working for MACH points/double Qs. Sometimes it's hard to tell who is frustrated, and who is just a fuss bucket, because I know a few dogs who scream on the course just out of sheer excitement, while others are mad at their handlers for not directing or moving quickly enough.
We don't have a "Genereal Manners" class. It's Intro, Beginners, Intermediate I, and Intermediate II. You progress through classes by how well your dog is doing on obstacles, not how quiet he can be. He's doing well on his obstacles...when he can focus, thus we're in Intermediate II.
My answer would have been, "I'm sorry my dog is distracting you - Dave is helping me work on it."
That has been my answer for the most part, everytime somebody approaches me about it. Doesn't shut them up. They just start in with "I know, but..." They just don't take the hint :-/
Also, I would quietly ask Dave to intervene for you and make the other instructor aware of his game plan with you.
I think I'll do that the week after next (Dave won't be there next week....bollocks). People act like I don't know his barking and screaming is obnoxious. Of COURSE I know! I'M his handler! I'M the one that has to try and break him of it! I'M the one that has to deal with all the scowls and nasty comments. All THEY have to put up with is 45 minutes of me trying to shut him up, and then they can go home >.<
By the end of class last night, I was absolutely EXHAUSTED. We hardly did any work on the equipment because I was trying to hard to get him to shut the hell up. He seems to think that the MOMENT I reward him for looking at me and being quiet, he gets to pop up and drag me towards the equipment. He got really pissed that I wouldn't allow that, and I made him back up, and lay down, and be quiet again. He's not comprehending that
I say when we get to go run, not him.
We're FINE around and near the equipment, but the
instant another dog steps onto the course and starts working, he has a royal melt down. He can't stand it.
When I took him out of sight (at Dave's request, to see if he would chill out a bit), there was no improvement. I took him away from both agility setups (one was indoor, one was outdoor), no improvement. He'd just look at me and bark and scream. I'd wait for him to be quiet for a millisecond, and he got a cookie if he was quiet and watching...and the moment he swallowed the cookie, he decided he could drag be back toward the agility buildings....I wouldn't let him, and put him back in a down, and it started all over again.
My hands were absolutely numb and sore by the end of class (we won't even talk about how bad my ankle felt), but we're trying. I'm rather surprised I didn't get frustrated and cry...I really didn't feel anything but calm, but after yesterday, that whole "Project calm energy" thing, just doesn't work for me, because my dog didn't give a whit.
We'll get there, I know we will, but I'm going to explode if one more person tries to intervene with a way to "help" when I'm having enough trouble focusing on Dave and my dog.