sillysally
Posted : 6/28/2006 9:37:26 AM
My dog is timid of strangers (but getting better), so I understand what you are going through. Glenda has given some really good advice.
Have you ever heard of NILIF? It is a non-violent, non-confrontational way to establish leadership. Fearful dogs need strong but kind leaders. They need to know they can trust you, or it will only add to their anxiety. Establish a routine and stick to it. Dogs are more comfortable when they can predict their lives. Sally THRIVES on routine.
Start doing basic obedience exercises--sit, down, etc-the sessions should be short and very upbeat--lots and praise, etc. Setting the dog up for success will up his confidence. "Smart toys," like treat balls, can help to up the level of confidence as well.
Never, EVER force the dog into meetings with strangers. This will only frighten him more and you want strangers to equal wonderful things as much as possible. For every negative experience with a stranger he has to have a thousand positive ones. Also, make sure that if he displays fear, you do not coddle him--no "it's ok boy, it's ok." He will likely see this as praise, and think that he is right to be afraid. Praise and encourage progress, and ignore fear reponses.
Above all, do not make the mistake that I did and expect too much to fast. The dog must go at his own pace.
ETA--please do NOT alpha roll your fearful dog. This will only be terrifying to him and possibly dangorous to you.