inne
Posted : 8/14/2006 8:26:01 PM
Louise is 7 months and when she was about 4 months she was off-leash in the dog park and encountered little boy (maybe 4?) whose brothers told him to chase Louise. I told him not to, but he did, Louise got very scared and ran away and started growling in an "I'm feeling really threatened" way. The parents were there and did nothing and I had to yell at the kid to not chase my dog because it scares her. I tried really hard to be calm, but I just don't do it and I think me being upset confused Louise further. It all happened in less than 20 seconds. Before this, she had met kids and were completely fine with them; she liked them, but this changed her.
Anyway, after that she was not a big fan of people under 18. She would growl and bark at them, not in an aggressive way, but in an "I'm so confused by you, please don't chase me." That went on for about 2 months and she would have to be on the leash around kids and I've tried to be very calm, not reinforce her fear and act like kids are totally normal and unimportant. Sometimes I gave her treats when we were around kids, hoping she would associate them with good things and also realize that she can do normal things, like eat treats and be relaxed, without having to be hyperalert of where the kids are. They could walk by her without her even looking at them, but if they came towards her directly in her line of vision or tried to pet her, she would get scared. However, over time, her fear has turned into curiosity and she slowly became comfortable with older teenagers, then worked her way down to small kids. In the last few weeks I especially noticed a difference.
Working on commands on the leash, close to a group of kids who had no interest in her was a very positive step for us. We also met kids with dogs who were amazing with them and totally knew what they were doing; we would let our dogs meet and play, but they wouldn't approach Louise or walk towards her. One day a girl who was about 12 picked up her dog's ball and threw it for Louise. That was the first time I saw Louise totally relax around a child and since then she hasn't growled at all and has even approached kids for petting.
Anyway, this is a very, very long explanation! And I'm guessing that it was more the element of surprise that scared Lizzie, but I did want to jump in and tell you some things that worked for me after dealing with that experience of fear after being being put on the defensive by a child.