Hello all,
My husband and I have a meremma sheepdog mix puppy. Her name is Polly and she is 8 months old, 65+ pounds, and a really sweet girl.
However, in the past few weeks, we've noticed that she gets aggressive when we ask her to either go outside or go to another room in the house (she's not a strictly indoor dog). With commands such as "no", "sit", "stay", or "wait", she shows NO signs of aggression. Sometimes she will just flat-out ignore us, but she won't growl or bite or bark or anything.
When she gets aggressive, she will start by growling, progress to snarling, and snap at us as a warning. If we continue to ask her to do something, she will bite us. I am less intimidated by her than my husband, so if she won't go outside or leave the kitchen, I will use both hands to grab the skin behind her head and physically walk her to the location I want her to be. This has resulted in a few bites. Nothing major, but still a bite (which is unacceptable). My husband tends to just back off and walk away when she starts getting aggressive.
We originally would do Alpha rolls with her when she was a puppy, but she seemed to just think it was another form of affection. Those clearly don't work with a 65 pound dog, and I've heard a lot of warnings about using them.
My guess is that her aggression is stemming from the fact that we have a herd for her to guide and protect. We have a fenced in back yard, but she only really likes being outside when out other dog (a female pit-bull mix, 1.5 yrs) is out with her. She CLEARLY sees our other dog and my husband and I as her herd. Last night, she was desperately trying to get us all into the living room together. This didn't work since it was bedtime. She settled for sitting in the bedroom doorway to "keep a lookout" for us.
I work 8-5 every day, and my husband is finishing up an art degree while owning his own business. His schedule is a little bit looser than mine, but he's gone from the house quite a bit, too. We can take her on walks (she loves them and is actually a really great leash dog), but it's getting cold out. We live in Indiana.
So...
1) is there anything we can do to discourage her aggression?
2) is there an easy way to train a meremma? they are definately strong-willed and like to make their own decisions.
3) is there something we can do in the winter to give her a job? some sort of toy or game she can play? we can't play with her every single minute that we're home, but if there is something she can do that we can supervise easily while also fixing dinner, cleaning the house, etc, that would be a life saver.
I really just think she needs a job, but I'm not sure how to give her one without moving to a farm and buying sheep (not happening at this stage in life).
Thanks for the input!