Sera_J
Posted : 4/15/2011 5:15:55 PM
That's what I was thinking (as to their ages) they sound like rascals! That's also the main reason they probably haven't gotten into any scraps yet.... they still have their "puppy licenses", adults will be much more tolerant of an obnoxious puppy, but your males is set to expire any day now and if he did that to the wrong adult male..... you could have a real problem.
Do you have any friends with tempermentally sound dogs, about 3-7'ish? A nice adult, maternal bitch would be perfect. My friends have dogs such as these, and I set my other friends up for play dates with them..... they played separately (they have 2 puppies) with mama, she put them in their place quickly. Then we had them play with a patient adult male who can also help you teach them. Aggressive play is not fun for most dogs and they need to learn what is acceptable. By putting them in a situation to play with random dogs you could be setting them up for a bad encounter. Often times, the other dog will stop playing, this is sign one that the dog is not having fun, in which case it maybe time for a time out for your dog.
As far as things you can do, step in when their play goes too far. Put them in time outs... (so when they are playing in the house and they get too excited/aggressive) step in.
I was dog sitting one of my pups, a young bitch about 10 months old. She is a super aggressive player, as most Weims, she and my adult male (her father) would play tirelessly, but sometimes she'd go too far. You could tell because, as I said, my male would stop playing and not re-engage with her, turning away, trying to avoid her. She'd start picking at him, bouncing on him grabbing ears, etc. I'd step in and she'd get a time out.... she needed to learn it was unacceptable. By about the 3rd time out (over the course of a day or two) she stopped. When he told her, very politely may I add, "please stop." she'd wander off. So, watch your dogs, when you start to see escalation (wish is what pups are more likely to do versus stop playing) it's time for a time out. Do you have crates?
As to the barking, people will disagree with me, and that's fine. Maybe they will have some other solutions that they would like to share. I use a water bottle. I give them the option to stop, if they continue, I squirt them, if they continue I continue.... once they stop, I quietly reward them, lots of pets, cookies... etc. Not too much excitement, as mine will immediately start barking (mine really vocal :)
As to when guests come over, yeah, Weims and Labs can be terrible about jumping, they like to be in your face. And everyone who comes over is there to see them! Continue working with the mat, or if you have crates put them in crates when someone knocks, and they have to stay in there until they calm down. This often has good success. I've had friends who've had their dogs successfully trained to run to their crates when someone comes over. Be sure to let them out when they've quieted down, but if they get too obnoxious when they are out, feel free to put them back in! I warn my guests to ignore the dogs, it helps to make a quieter introduction.