Could this be separation anxiety?

    • Bronze

    Could this be separation anxiety?

    Honestly, I had never even heard this term until today when I was searching through some old posts about crate training, and I think it may be the explanation for Lola's behavior. She is a 7 year old beagle, and we adopted her about 2 months ago. I do not currently work and am home most of the day. I have had so many issues with leaving Lola alone when I do have to leave. We have a fenced in backyard, and the first time I left her out there, she dug out under the fence. Next we tried closing her up in the hallway, and she tore up the carpet. We then got her a crate. She HATES it. As soon as she goes in, she starts heavily panting and licking the bars of the door. We then tried getting baby gates to close her into the kitchen, and she chewed up the blinds and then figured out how to open the gate and get out. We then tried leaving her with free reign of the house since we thought it was being confined that bothered her so much. It worked fine the first time, but then the second time (both times being only an hour of time left alone) she ripped up more carpet. All that to say, crating is the only option so that my house doesn't get destroyed or that she doesn't escape. From some reading I've been doing, I've figured out that I didn't ease her into the crate as I should have, and there are a few things I need to change such as leaving her a water bottle and a toy inside the crate. Other than those things are there any things I can do to help her be calm when I have to put her in her crate and leave? I would appreciate any advice.
    • Gold Top Dog

    This will be a marathon and not a sprint....keep that topmost in your mind.  The crate needs to be seen as the VERYBESTPLACEINTHEWHOLEWIDEWORLD!!!!  Feed her in the crate, and if need be to get her to go IN to eat (and don't close the door by the way) start off tossing something really stinky smelly just inside the opening.  If your crate is the type that the door comes off, take it off.  For right now, she needs to figure out that this is a GOOD place and not a trap.  SLLLLLLOOOOOWWWWLY get her to go in for marginally longer times, working up to eating her meal, getting a special toy (and even without closing the door she can learn that Nope, puppy has to stay in the crate.....puppy is your special crate toy.  Once you start closing the door, its gotta be at SECONDS to begin with.  Praise for calm, quiet behavior and release...and in this case I'd make a huge big deal out of the GREAT JOB she did for the milisecond she was in there.

    Once you've gotten to where you can leave her in the crate for actual minutes and are wanting to try a test run out of the house, you'll want to start using stuff like valerin root and calmes forte.  Callie is the resident expert on holistic stuff and she can give you better info on dosages.

    Above all, remember that this dog has not been in your home for long.  Trust takes time to build on both sides, and you don't know what is in her background, so.....marathon, not a sprint.

    Good luck and thanks so much for rescuing.

    • Gold Top Dog

    You might want to order Patricia McConnell's booklet 'I'll Be Home Soon".  It's under $10 and you'll spend more than that on destroyed property, etc.  It's a booklet with easy to understand, step by step instructions on dealing with SA.   McConnell is a well known dog trainer and you can't go wrong following her advice.  Good luck and get this booklet!

    • Gold Top Dog

    Jackie is right -- McConnell's book is a really good one and it's a darned good place to begin!! 

    I'm going to go back and emphasize some basics here -- we don't know you well, so please don't think anyone is treating you "stupid" (none of this is really intuitive).

    To start with -- beagles can tend towards SA.  Mine is.  That's not even why I say that -- they just tend to be super pack-oriented and tend to have real difficulty being alone.  That's not to say you can't train her -- but it is a breed tendency.

    First -- you made a bad beginning on the crate and their memories tend to be long.  So you have some "un-doing" to do that will lengthen this process.  she may have had a bad experience with a crate before you got her!

    You **can not** just put her in the crate at this point and go leave her.  You will reinforce her hatred of it and set yourself back irrevocably.  You must take the time to *train* her to the crate.  It's a slow process with the best of beginnings and you have some desensitizing to do at the same time.

    So honestly?  Right now you may simply need to dog-proof an area where you CAN leave her, and you may want to investigate either some herbal helps and/or you may actually need to get something from the vet in the altnernative.  Separation anxiety can get REALLY bad -- to the point of the dog doing huge physical harm to itself in it's panic to try to get out of the crate.

    Let me also ask here -- if you got this crate at Wal-mart STOP.  Don't use it.  Sell it on a garage sale or something but DO NOT use a cheap crate with a separation anxious dog.  They can actually bend the crate itself, and open part of it.  I've got a dog with separation anxiety (Luna) and she can literally destroy a crate in hours.  And she's just a 30 pound basset beagle mix.  And her SA isn't super bad any more. 

    what was said above about the crate being "the BEST" place -- that's critical.  So you feed in the crate, you give treats in there, you just plain give treats, toys, food-stuffed Kongs, etc. and anything else you can figure out to reinforce that good stuff happens in a crate.  And you DON'T close the door for a long time.

    When you do -- you take it micron-sized steps at a time.  You close the door while they are inthere involved in something wonderful (like a stuffed Kong) WHILE YOU ARE IN THAT ROOM.  i.e., so you aren't 'gone'.  Lengthen it slowly -- and simply go in and out of the room. 

    Never let the dog out when it cries.  Even if you have to toss something IN the crate to quiet them for a moment to set them up so they ARE quiet so you *can* let them out. 

    Be careful not to set up unwitting "habits" that can cue the dog that you are about to leave.  We humans LOVE habits -- and things like going to get your purse, or turning the TV on to Animal Planet and then getting your keys out ... those sorts of things tip an SA dog off that you are going to

    GASP    SHOCK               HORROR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    L-E-A-V-E !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    That can send them into overdrive before you even get "See Ya" out of your mouth!

    As George Harrison said "It takes time -- a whole lotta precious time ...."  (and he was talking about romance not separation anxiety but it happens to fit here *grin*)

    If you want to try an herbal -- valerian root works well -- but it takes about an hour if you try to give the ground herb caps.  The tincture acts far faster (use the alcohol-free -- it's far more palatable).

    Calms Forte is a homeopathic -- and it pairs really well with the valerian.  They aren't going to shut the dog down, but they aren't habit-forming either.

    I'm also going to recommend a Thunder Shirt -- it's a close-fitting layered shirt that literally helps them feel more calm.  It's not a cure all but it IS a help.

     

     

    • Gold Top Dog
    another chime in for "I'll Be Home Soon" -GREAT book. It was my go-to when I fostered a dog with BAD separation anxiety.
    • Bronze
    Thank you so much for all the advice! I will definitely pick up that book. I really wish I would have learned all this sooner so I wouldn't have started her off the way I did with the crate. Poor thing. I'm going to start working with her immediately starting with giving her breakfast tomorrow in her crate. I had no idea that there was even such a thing as separation anxiety in dogs, and I totally understand why she's been freaking out so much now.
    • Bronze
    Thank you all again for your advice! I've been working with Lola on crate training. I've been feeding her in there and giving her toys and treats in there. She would still never walk all the way in and stretched her head as far as she could to reach the food/treats at the back of the crate. We had a milestone last night! I put her bed where she normally sleeps inside the crate, and, after much coaxing (probably about 45 minutes) she went inside and slept all night inside the crate. A few more nights of that and then I'm going to try closing the door while she's sleeping. I'm so happy that this is starting to work out. I was so scared I wasn't going to be able to get her to like the crate. It really feels possible now. :)
    • Gold Top Dog

    No advice, as I think you've already had great advice. I just wanted to say thank you so much for rescuing and especially rescuing a dog that is a bit older.  Thanks so much for working with your dog and not being ready to give up. That's too often what happens with these poor animals and they go from home to home to home. Might even be why she was given up in the first place. Wishing you the best and it does look like you are on your way there and that you will really be able to enjoy your new girl without the stress of her tearing your house apart.

    • Gold Top Dog

    I would absolutely still do the McConnell protocol.  Till then, make all your greetings and departures very low key.  Try not to give her attention when SHE seeks it, rather you initiate it at times when she doesn't.  Don't leave toys around on the floor and don't play when she solicits play, say by putting a tennis ball in your lap.  Instead, you take out a toy when you are going to play with her, and put it away after you're done.  Reduce the amount of attention you give the dog for 30 minutes before you leave the house (so it's not such a noticeable drop in activity level once you do leave).  On weekends, make sure to leave the dog for a while, lest Monday she expects that you will stay with her all day, too;-)  (More destructive episodes happen on Mondays than any other days) When you know you must leave the dog, make sure that she has had plenty of exercise before the time when you start the 30 minute lower activity level and try to give her a good meal, too.  A tired sated dog is a better dog:-)  Also, make it a habit to shut doors behind you frequently so that she gets used to *not* being able to follow you all over the house.